Showing posts with label Peace of Mind. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Peace of Mind. Show all posts

Thursday, August 15, 2024

Lafzon Ki Jaddugari

Sad Philosophical Urdu Poetry
Lafzon Ki Jaddugari 

Lafzon Ki Jadugari 

Agar mujh ko Aati 

Tou Tum Aur Woh 

Mere aseer e Mohabbat hote

Gar lafzon APNA asar rakhte tou 

Tum AUR Woh 

Mujhe skikasta deewar Ke 

Saaye tale dafn 

Kar Ke chale na jaate

Yeh kia hua Ke Zindagi 

Mojood hai iss boseeda 

badan mein

Tou aur Woh 

Kuyn chor aaye iss awara thaki

Rooh ko uss jism mein

Yeh jaan aur Jahan hi tou sab se

Barh kar azaab hai 

Suna hai hum jaise benaam log

Uss Jahan mein bhi tole

Parkhe aur imtihaan gah mein

Hisaab denge 

Kuch jism jalaye jayenge

Jo roohrin sokhta hongi 

Unn ko aur garm bhatti mein 

Jalaya jayega....

Kia Kuch gunah 

Zindagi Ke Shuru hone 

Se pehle likh liye jaate Hain

Hisaab kia unn ka inn ka

Sab ka hoga 

To Tum AUR Woh 

Kahan paaye jayenge 

Sood o ziyan ka Mera hisaab 

Kia wahan khola jayega

Tum AUR Woh Meri faryaad par

Uss aag kj bhatti mein 

jalaaye jayenge...!!



Monday, June 24, 2024

My Soul is No More My Friend

Soul Satisfaction and Peace of Mind
My Soul is No More My Friend 

On my very sad moments 

I want you to be my side

As...

I find No Companion 

No Listener of My Grievance 

But...

You are no more there 

To pat on my shoulder,

To cry out loud with me 

To help me feel better 

With better tomorrow 

Better scenarios

And to let my know that 

After every darkness 

There is light ...

Now you push me more 

Into the dark holes of despair

To weep over my losses 

As all due to my 

Shallow self...

I am long dead inside 

You know it...

But

Why you want me to suffer 

More and more

And that's why you arise

Day dreams and desires 

Do strong inside my hollow being

You don't pity me anymore 

You seem to cherish

My suffering and why

You are more of an enemy 

To me...

But still In don't know why 

My only lifelong companion 

My soul ..where are you...!!

Wednesday, November 24, 2021

Self Awareness is a Gift that Few People Cherish but Many Can Learn…!!

Optimism and Motivation for Self Awareness

Life is a continuous struggle that we as humans try to live for our best. We try hard to find the real meaning of life and why our existence is so important for the universe. But, unfortunately very few lead to worthwhile conclusions, and even helpful to sustain and to strive for our very own attainment of heights of glory, peace of soul, and above all to be a part of a better human race. Yes, we must try hard to look to find our real being, and self-awareness is bliss in a way. When people get aware of how their hearts and mind coordinate, and how to give guidance to one’s subconscious and unconscious mind in the right way then things are all going to be very well for us, and humanity in general. 

Deciding to live in peace with what we are gifted by the Divine Rulings, and what is the limitation to our actions, and how to control the wild side that usually exists in every ordinary human being. I am not talking about the superhumans, who have great self-control or are gifted to look beyond their worldly desires, and materialistic approaches towards life and towards other beings. The craving to find relaxed life, true love, and to find success in everything we do is a wish that no sane person can deny for…!!


Each individual has a soul and a desire to live in the best of conditions, and that does not mean to bully, to crush others in the game of success, or to reach the top of a hill, by moving and shaking the inside out of others. If there is a self-awareness of our capabilities, the blessings that we already carry, and our aptitude that must be directed towards something that we highly crave. Then our unconscious mind will take us towards that path with the right decisions and actions at the right time. The wishes must be realistic and there must be an overall positivity in everything we desire for. Some people like to keep the pessimistic approach towards life and other people. 


They want to harm others with their words, actions, and an inside craving to see others suffer. It might be due to their experiences, and the hard and harsh things that others have done to them. But the important thing is to always try to stay away from the emotion of revenge. I don’t ask you to present another cheek if someone slaps you at once. Self-respect is such a precious part of self-awareness that one must never compromise on it. But to keep our nerves in control, and to refrain from damaging another person with our words, actions and attitude are not recommended. Either we must be able to say the truth in front of the one who is hurting our true emotions and giving a jerk to the soul. In another case, forgive or forget is the best option…!!


The concept of forgiveness and forgetting carries a pearl of inherited wisdom, as we let our mind and soul not be able to suffer from the things that don’t matter in our path and struggle to live a better life. Then the second-best thing happens that we don’t want our emotions and energy in negative ways, and give ourselves a lesson that other person’s deeds and words do not reflect me. I am going to define myself in the way I see myself, and how I want to grow and groom. Self-nurturing and growth is natural process, and we keep on learning at every age. If we are aware of our own flaws and weaknesses then we are better able to correct and control ourselves for our very own good life and physical, emotional, and mental health, and to have a peaceful soul….!! 



Tuesday, November 7, 2017

What Life is Teaching Me...!!

Life and Lesson
What life is teaching me
I often wonder...!
Why i am suffering
why I am so silly
What happened at time 
When I knew nothing of Sins...
When I was just so simple
But
Life treated me like 
I was a Criminal 
Tortured me like a hell on earth
I tried hope
I tried Peace of Mind
I wanted to reconciliate with life
But
Nothing came to rescue me
Devil was strong stood with me
Tried every tactics and I was engulfed
I am still trying hard to find peace
To repent over sins
To ask for Forgiveness to God Almighty
I am hopeful He Will Answer with Love
and Remedies of worldly 
and Soul's wounds....
I am hopeful 
life has in fact taught me a lot
I Guess.....!!

Tuesday, March 22, 2016

I Am Nowhere to be Found…!!

Life and Soul
I am all lost with my soul in transition
I am not going to feel all that pain
Misery that is enveloped me
With never changing costume…!
I am living dead
I am waiting for Heaven
Which for me is far away…
The curse of Life is far burdensome to handle
I am sad, I am lonely
I want to be at peace with myself
But there is no Space no Peace of Mind
No Confider….
The Ultimate Listener
Is all in annoyance with me
I have stained SOUL…
Once I was living this mortal life
with all its joyful attributes
But now a Hollow Being…
And detached heart…
I am not in Heaven
and
You cannot find me at least
till
Time untold of unknown…!

Saturday, March 7, 2015

Eternal Life Dreams versus Lust for the World!


Eternal life and Lust for World

Life is all about big dreams and fantasies that we keep on rolling in our sleeves, and to try to unfold these at a time when things seem to be too worst around. It is our survival instinct that makes us visualize everything perfect in the “Eternal Life” though we have done nothing to save ourselves from sins and matters of self-destruction so far. We have lost that Soul Connection that our ancestors used to have with the parallel world, and they always used to keep the Death aspect, at a near distance when they used to move on for chores of life!

Now we have lost that connection and too much indulged in worldly matters and lust for the material aspects of it. Here I would like to mention that we have forgotten about Heaven and Hell in a real way. We only Remember ALLAH Almighty when we face some crises situation or we see someone closed to us departing from this temporary life. Every death reminds us of our own decay and loss of every worldly thing that we carry. It makes us afraid of what we are going to get into our Eternal Bags to earn rewards out there!

So what is the real matter of covering out all those aspects that can makes us go for all good things that are stored for us in the Eternal Life. If we look for Peace of Mind and an Awakening of Spiritual Sensitivity inside us then we need to clean our hearts and minds. We have to take the world as a battlefield for all kinds of tests and trials, and to keep on striving for it as much as it is necessary. You think that I am preaching all Religious Mind-set to you. It is by the way a Reality that we all have to return to Eternity after spending our Divinely Fixed Time in this world. 

What is wrong in keeping our deaths in our active mind to let ourselves refrain from all those lusts that are going to ruin our SOULS and our Afterlife? It is just good to try to adopt a fine balance between what is right and then to go for all worldly excursions that are necessary. Don’t try to leave every positive pleasure out of your life, and don’t even stop spreading a message of love and peace to the world. All you need is to understand that a peaceful life is a bliss in itself. 

Life is all about a trial and a way to heed for everything good and pleasurable that will be eternal and forever. It is just a difficult thing to let lose all temptations of the world, and to go on for a good things of life. So be active and agile to win all rewards that are timeless and will be provide by Divine Will. So let’s live this life as a great activity place where you need to be careful about every move of yours and that of its effects as well!!

Monday, October 27, 2014

Desperate Souls!!

Desperate and Lonely Soul
I see lots of people is miseries and pains and facing lots of issues from their routine lives. They want an escape from their daily routines and to live a time with their own selves. It is getting such a bigger issue due to hectic work routines and gadget freaking world that has created a mess all around. So what is a real matter that has occurred with humanity? We have lost a quality time to spend with our loved ones, and even if they might desperately need it at the moment!
So what we can really do as an individual entity is to try to figure out what is happening in the lives of our family members and friends. How we can make small or bigger changes in their situations and lives. We need to extend our love and compassion right now, and ask to give them a comfort level with us so they can speak out their problems and stresses with us easily.

Believe me it will work wonders in your circles and on a whole social scenario. People won’t need to look for strangers to distribute their personal sorrows and pains. The gradual rise in suicide rate all around the globe and especially in the developed countries will definitely reduce. I feel it is due to the gap between Human Souls is widening, and that was not the case with our ancestors. So they had fabulous lives with an atmosphere of share and care all around!

Whenever I see a person with stressful face then it reminds me of the failure of the modern day’s comforts and gadgets. We have failed in getting the peace of mind and soul, and the LOVE connection is long lost. We have fake profiles and obviously fake or temporary relations. The “Genuine” element is all getting messed up with finding ways to kill TIME, and to be unconcerned about the problems of others.

So I really see so many Desperate Souls wandering around for Salvation! Why can’t we empathize and sympathize with others to leave some important movie or to forget about a football match. Yes! We can do it and make so many people peaceful otherwise we will see a great rise if the rate of depression, anxiety and suicide among our fellow Human Beings. Just to see that it is not something with others but can happen to us at any moment in life!

When I need a Human Consolation then I can’t find peace in social networking and in seeing lots of other stuff. People are forgetting about BOOKS which were and still are the Best Companions, and we need to adapt that same old life pattern! We have to focus on keeping a closer look at the troubles and joys of our near and dear ones. Then I think we can find a true peace within, and a new level of motivation to carry that positive impulse all around. Take care not only of yours but of people around!!

Wednesday, October 8, 2014

Ride on High Hopes to Win Battle Against Pessimism!!

Motivation to Remove Pessimism Out of Life
It is so difficult to carry on life at times when we see nothing good in present moment and then still can’t find some good news for upcoming days. Does it mean to stop dreaming and to leave Hope for the sake of living in a black hole? No absolutely no! It is just against the rule of nature and not a healthy sign to keep on living like an earthworm. We have to move ahead with high spirits and soulful messages to our unconscious mind.

When you think you are losing the nerves to control that bleak corner of your in-depth personality, and it is riding like a bull in an arena all wild and destructive. Then it is time to intervene and work with best of things that can cause motivation and let you grow as an individual and an active member of the society. You will not only be a successful person but a great asset to this planet Earth and to your Society as well!

Keep on giving yourself joyful, peaceful and unconditional messages of self-approval and love! I bet you can survive the worst of battles within your souls if you do it, and to add if you pray regularly and meditate then you are definitely seeing a brighter side that is full of Spirituality and Optimism. Once you attain a state of peaceful and clam feelings and thoughts due to your recently started spiritual journey then you will grow as a great Human Being and a Fighter of the toughest battle that is definitely fought within our souls, hearts and minds.

Most of times, people give up their motivation and think that they cannot overcome their problems. They do it by themselves or people around make them feel at low self-esteem that they are born losers. No! It is not the case, and if you are a person who knows that Nature takes Tests and with each individual it is different then you will definitely go on a high ride of Hope, Goal Setting and Motivation for sure!


Just ignore the negative comments and vibes that people keep on giving. Just focus on thing praise yourself for your past achievements, love yourself and then think that you will go on a success track that will be far different and much better than you had already experienced. Just ignore the criticism and take praises with feet on earth. I am sure nobody can pull you back from the successful journey, and even if you are moving on a path of spiritual elevation. Good luck!!

Sunday, October 5, 2014

Present Moment and Peace of Mind is Our Real Asset!!


We are born to die but in what way is a real essence of life! If we die like a person whose existence was like a rock besides the path or a weed that grows in wastelands then it is not worth living. We need to make it wide and clear that we are not only breathing but in fact living a life that is full of goals, objects and dreams. We might get into pitfalls or reach at the corridors of new victories but it is only motivation that lets us going onwards.

When a person loses that motivation or optimism to go for good then he or she dies before the departing of soul from the body. So a living dead condition applies to that person and it is not a normal scenario. If that person was born with twists and turns of luck or it is due to lack of courage to face challenges? It depends on each individual person’s circumstances. And I do acknowledge that finding a way to Motivation and Courage becomes the most desirable but difficult thing at many times in life!

At many times people make decisions that are not based on their own Intuition or Will. They just go on a path in a mechanical way just for the sake of fulfilling their responsibilities and duties in a normal manner. They don’t care about their Peace of MIND and Soul, and they don’t even bother about giving relief and a vacation to themselves. They are bound to live in that way due to feeling all time obsessed with duties or responsibilities!

Here I would like to mention another category of people who do not provide leisure to their SOULS due to higher goals in lives. They want to be recognized as big corporate giants, top notch professionals or to gain stardom at the cost of losing their precious chunks of Present Moment that is really their own. They accomplish one task and then leap for another to feel motivated and relive their dreams and desires!

But both kinds of people forget that future is all uncertain and past is gone forever with only a lesson to remember. So it is this is a Present Moment that we need to cherish and to make full use of it. You might never know that you will get the best job offer just tomorrow or listen to some negative thing, despite the fact you have worked so hard to get that job done.

So remain optimistic, spiritually elevated and then enjoy what life is offering right now. Don’t wait for tomorrow to have that pleasure, and to keep on postponing your small passion, leisure, joys and love that is waiting for you to come, and get the best of life out of these small happenings that seems to be too big when you are getting that real Peace of Mind, and enjoy Soul Satisfaction that so many people in the world are craving for and only imagine in dreams!!

Tuesday, September 30, 2014

Follow Your Gut Feeling While Reaching at Big Decisions of Life!

Intuition and Peace of Mind
When you are on a brink of making some important decisions of your life like going in a relationship as friendship, marriage or to adopt a new career path then things might seem too drastic. It is not a case of easy options for everyone when it comes to decision that might affect the whole course of action and patterns of your life, and even of your closed ones as well.  It is a time when you need to focus on your will power, and to keep your nerves intact in order to reach on a definite decision!

To make a decision doesn't always mean that you have to have a full road map of future destination. Tell me one thing as if anybody knows about his or her future. A guy gets out of an apartment to go to his job and immediately get struck by a car or truck. He may die or have disability then where are all aspirations and dreams along with goals as well?

It means that your Gut Feeling is of real importance when you want to make a decision. Your only choice is in a present time that is NOW, and you cannot replay your past or to look into future. So make a decision that is based on rationality and practical wisdom. But let your SOUL speaks to you in its own manner. If you close your eyes and take a deep breath and focus on a matter in consideration then the first thought that comes in your mind is in fact your intuition which is immediately captured by your conscious mind!

So you need to practice on grabbing that first feeling or thought that might not have even lasted for half a second. If you are able to reach out for that thin line of thought then Life would be much more different and in fact easy for you. You may think as what is the correlation between gut feeling and making a hardcore decision about some special happening in your life.

Here I must tell you that it is highly important as you will always find a path that is peaceful, and you will never regret of what you opted for. So a parallel success comes in a way when your extra senses get awakened by deep breathing, meditation, prayer, yoga NLP or any other alternative path to self discovery, and to awaken that spiritually factor inside you.

I have always found out that people who pray regularly or in another way live at a Spiritually Elevated state feel less of pain, and they do not get into depression or anxiety like normal people. To add that it is not a hard coded formula which is so difficult to adopt. I know this world of gadgets and luxuries have loosened our connection with Nature and Spirituality!

But we can always work on that for the benefit of our own souls, lives and that of ones who are dear to us. When you will be in a calm and peaceful state then it will be so easy for you to make any kind of decision no matter how hard it seems outwardly.

Remember if you read biographies of all great people then you can see that they had strong will power accompanied with a definite decisive power. So keep on nurturing your soul, and make it quite simpler for you to get on a decision that will definitely lead you to more prosperity and to help you in nurturing your peace of mind and soul!!

Saturday, September 27, 2014

Always Value Your Self Esteem and Boost Your Motivation Level!!

Self Esteem Leading to Confidence and Motivation
You know everyone is so important and has a distinct place on this earth. God Almighty has created each individual person with special characteristics and personality, and He Loves his creation undoubtedly. So you are as special as anyone like a political leader, film star, shining music celebrity, star player and anyone worth having attention.

It is just that some people are more out in the world to show their talents to the world. While others remain as the unsung heroes but it does not mean that normal guys like you and I have no meaning of existence on this planet!

Enjoy Your Life and Existence with Motivational Approach

So when our existence is so correlative to nature and special place on Earth, and we are as important in this world like anyone then our Self Esteem is our key point or our USP of Life that we must never compromise. We have to have a focus on our objectives and duties that we have to fulfil but never to lose our personal sanctity, listen to any abuses or to lower our self-respect just because someone wants us to feel like so!

You know that recent research conducted by psychologists proved that people in general feel relaxed, and in fact quite happy if they come to know that others are feeling distracted or feel distressed due to some comment to behaviour by them.

Don’t Compromise on Your Self Esteem

So when a negative vibe is created and a person tries to loosen the tight rope of Motivation and Optimism of anyone then it may be a general phenomenon. The important fact is that whoever that person is, and even he or she matters a lot in your life has no right to let you feel at the lowest level of Self Esteem!

Success in Waiting for You to Recognize Your Positive Personality Traits

It is a right time to think if your relationships are soured up and you are losing that important person “YOU” due to such inhuman acts as I must say! So is the case with your job or any such thing where you continuously feel like in a torture cell, and you feel that you are losing your own worth which is in fact a hindrance in Success.

Wake up your instincts and work on improving your motivation level so that you can find a better job opportunity. To get out of a dragging relationship and find inner peace, and in fact a comfort zone within yourself.

Live a Life of Your Choices and Follow Success Path with Optimism

Live a life of your own choice and cherish your personality attributes. Set your own success goals and live with full Optimism and remain Spiritually Awakened, to fulfil and nourish your Soul. Never try to be a people pleaser, and always focus on having inner strength to fight the outside battle with people who want to refrain you from having Positive Thinking pattern, and Peace of Mind and in fact Your Soul.

Peace of Mind and Soul is Too Important to Compromise On

When you will be working on yourself and remain focused on improving your quality of Life then I am sure you will never give a damn chance to anyone, to ruin your personal freedom and off course your Self Esteem for sure. Good Luck to you and always try to live with a Peace of Mind but having your very own identity all intact!!



Live on the Edge of Motivation to Find Real Success!!

Motivation Leading to Struggle and Success
You are going to see lots of changes in your environment, circumstances, goals, relationships and the motivation level as well. But don’t panic if something happens unexpectedly. Try to calm down your nerves and think positive, and to find a way to get out of difficult situations. It can happen so easily with a Peace of MIND, and a closer look at the rational side of what is happening. Here are some important tips to let you make easy decisions that are based on Reality and Practical Wisdom.

Value Yourself

It is very much important to value yourself as an individual human being, and as a special part of this universe. Feel comfortable with your nature and with your personality traits as well. I must say you need to approve that you have traits that are purely yours!

Love Yourself Unconditionally

Do not complain all the time about your physical appearance and your inner personality. Don’t waste your Motivation and Positive Energies by comparing yourself with anyone, even with your siblings. They might not be having the same level of maturity, will power or determination or any other trait. Never complain that Life or Nature is unkind to you.

Appreciate Your Gains and Success

Always applaud yourself on any kind of attainment no matter how too simple or small it is! When you compliment yourself at each step of success then your unconscious and subconscious mind keeps on registering it as your growth, and eventually you will start recognizing yourself as a most precious entity in your own LIFE and for other people as well.

Focus on Your Goals and Be Optimistic

It is always an easy task to ridicule and demotivate others, and we have plenty of people around who are masters of that. So stay away from the surroundings of negative people, and focus on your ways to achieve your personal goals and remain optimistic throughout your journey to Success and Achievements.

Always Start a New Day with High Spirits

When you wake up every morning then give yourself a statement that you are going to stay all motivated, and expect to have everything in a fine manner. You are important for yourself and for the people who really matter in your life, so never spoil a single day because of some bad comments or behaviours of irrelevant people.

Stay Calm in Difficult Situations and Trigger Your Peace of Mind

It is a proven fact that if someone is facing hard times then a continuous moaning and complaint has never done a good job! So it is a best practice to keep your nerves all cool, calculated and clam while you are going through some rough phase in a personal relationship or in your professional life. Here if you meditate and do any other exercises to trigger your Peace of Mind then you are a successful person right at this moment.

Praise Your Energies and Will Power

When you keep on praising yourself for your steadfastness in the previous odd times, and work hard to improve your Positive Will Power. Then it is time to cherish the feeling of winning a battle of nerves. Serve yourself with best of feed or deserts. Hang out and have fun on your own. Even you can plan a vacation to spend some time in Nature and to revitalize your Spirits and to remain in close contact with your inner SOUL. This way, you will achieve all Success and Motivation to do extraordinary things, and to fight a monster that might always let you down to low self-esteem and irrational decisions.

Find a Way to Live Close to Spirituality and Mysticism

I am not telling you a folklore but it is a fact of life as if you instigate your inner peace of mind then you will reach at a level when your sixth sense and intuition works so strongly to alarm you of any bad happenings. You are able to read mind and body language of others. You can work on your personal or worldly goals with a greater perspective and even can serve Humanity at large in a better and fulfilling way!!