Self Awareness is a Gift that Few People Cherish but Many Can Learn…!!

Optimism and Motivation for Self Awareness

Life is a continuous struggle that we as humans try to live for our best. We try hard to find the real meaning of life and why our existence is so important for the universe. But, unfortunately very few lead to worthwhile conclusions, and even helpful to sustain and to strive for our very own attainment of heights of glory, peace of soul, and above all to be a part of a better human race. Yes, we must try hard to look to find our real being, and self-awareness is bliss in a way. When people get aware of how their hearts and mind coordinate, and how to give guidance to one’s subconscious and unconscious mind in the right way then things are all going to be very well for us, and humanity in general. 

Deciding to live in peace with what we are gifted by the Divine Rulings, and what is the limitation to our actions, and how to control the wild side that usually exists in every ordinary human being. I am not talking about the superhumans, who have great self-control or are gifted to look beyond their worldly desires, and materialistic approaches towards life and towards other beings. The craving to find relaxed life, true love, and to find success in everything we do is a wish that no sane person can deny for…!!

Each individual has a soul and a desire to live in the best of conditions, and that does not mean to bully, to crush others in the game of success, or to reach the top of a hill, by moving and shaking the inside out of others. If there is a self-awareness of our capabilities, the blessings that we already carry, and our aptitude that must be directed towards something that we highly crave. Then our unconscious mind will take us towards that path with the right decisions and actions at the right time. The wishes must be realistic and there must be an overall positivity in everything we desire for. Some people like to keep the pessimistic approach towards life and other people. 

They want to harm others with their words, actions, and an inside craving to see others suffer. It might be due to their experiences, and the hard and harsh things that others have done to them. But the important thing is to always try to stay away from the emotion of revenge. I don’t ask you to present another cheek if someone slaps you at once. Self-respect is such a precious part of self-awareness that one must never compromise on it. But to keep our nerves in control, and to refrain from damaging another person with our words, actions and attitude are not recommended. Either we must be able to say the truth in front of the one who is hurting our true emotions and giving a jerk to the soul. In another case, forgive or forget is the best option…!!

The concept of forgiveness and forgetting carries a pearl of inherited wisdom, as we let our mind and soul not be able to suffer from the things that don’t matter in our path and struggle to live a better life. Then the second-best thing happens that we don’t want our emotions and energy in negative ways, and give ourselves a lesson that other person’s deeds and words do not reflect me. I am going to define myself in the way I see myself, and how I want to grow and groom. Self-nurturing and growth is natural process, and we keep on learning at every age. If we are aware of our own flaws and weaknesses then we are better able to correct and control ourselves for our very own good life and physical, emotional, and mental health, and to have a peaceful soul….!! 

Spiritually Awakened People Love Humanity At Large!

Spiritual Peace and Motivation

Rain makes it hard for me to keep myself away from the nostalgic memories that are swirling around. I am all surrounded with great events and people who made my life worth with their warm presence, and let me build a true perception about Life, World and its Reality. Yes! On a very positive note I am listening to the drizzling sound of rain on my window and lost in the times when I was free to get out and move freely in the summer rains. To make my soul have all nourishment from the Nature, and to be awakened by the new Motivation to move on!

Now I think that Nature has given us gifts of changes in seasons like the moods and circumstances. We have all springs and autumns within us. If we are moving on a path of Spiritual Elevation then we see that Divine Light is flashed on us to be all carefree and to love nature and humanity at large. I am still surprise at how people can do injustice and barbarism to others, and even torture them to die when there are so many positive things to look and feel!

When I have a chance meeting with people who have traveled a lot of the road of Spirituality and Mysticism then they are all in love for Human Beings. I haven’t seen them teaching hatred, violence and to lower self esteem of others at any name. It is due to the fact that they have understood the real purpose of life, to live in peace and harmony with not only human beings but with all creation of God Almighty. The positive energy that these people radiate influence all their followers, and even spread as a shield to others around.

Motivation and Optimism doesn't come with negative energy, and all those brutal people in history and at present had no Positive Energies but they had evil desires and hatred that might be due t some imbalanced childhood upbringings. Otherwise anyone who loves humanity and a sudden smile comes on his face on seeing an innocent child can’t kill him or her. Here a question arises as if man is born to be all cruel and evil. No! He is born of love and compassion but evil and negative environment and brainwashing make him do such wild acts!

So it is time for all of us on this Planet Earth to ponder seriously about the ways to make real Peace here. So that is time for us to decide to live in peace and harmony, and let a beautiful world waiting for our coming generations. Say Big NO to Wars and Terrorism, and spread Love, Compassion, Motivation and a message to follow Peace and to spread Motivation among human race. We have to do it otherwise the whole humanity and its technical advancement will come to point zero. So stay positive and awakened to let go all differences, and to remove hidden barriers within our personalities. It will make us move upside on a ladder of spirituality!!

The Ironic World’s Silence over Genocide in Gaza!!

The Great Irony!!

I am just trying to keep my mind from shattering too much for last couple of days as I am watching pictures and videos of innocent children killed in Israeli bombardments. I feel pain and suffering when I see a blown head of a five or six years age boy. I feel the agony at seeing a father crying over the dead bodies of his three kids in a row. I was going to cry out loud when I was seeing the dozens of children all dead in a school at Gaza of Palestine.

I could even control my tears and death binding silence over the videos of bombs that are flooded on the civilian areas of Gaza in Palestine. But one thing made me scream out loud when I saw a picture of Israeli “Sderot Cinema” that is formed on the beaches of a sea that connects Israel to the Gaza Stip. Here the chairs with all fun going activities are arranged, and Israelis come to sit out here, and watch the Live SHOW of Bomb Shelling on Innocent and Armless People of Gaza. They shout, sprout and dance with joy over every bomb that is dropped on the far side, and they hear its sound and see the fire that evokes out!

I made me sick and I got a nauseating feeling in my stomach for whole two days. Can we call them Human Beings? No! For sure not! And their behaviour reminded me of the ancient ROME where Coliseums were filled with Brutes having the faces of Human Beings and they were dying to see slaves in chains, to bring in the arena, to be a prey of hungry tigers or to let them fight with each other and see death, murder, blood all around. These Brutes were so called Civilized Romans who used to roar up like a hoard to see human beings lie down and giving their lives away, by falling in front of them.

So here are Modern Day’s Coliseums set at Gaza and many other parts of the WORLD. It is time to see the duel faces of the civilized world and its people, as those nations who are always on forefront about Clichéd Human Rights, and they make so much “hue and cry” over the violations in any case. Is there no sane person in that part of the world who is observing the Massacre and more than that a Genocide of Palestinians, right in front of media? So these people of Israel are supposed to be the Moving Characters of Hitler’s Holocaust, and they were the victims as they claimed. How can they do it to others, and I feel ashamed that there is no one with little humanistic feelings left in Israel to ask for stopping this brutality!

I am asking the whole world that is so focused on Human Rights and the violation makes them angry. They march on streets and raise placards to demonstrate their rage against any violence. Are they really not seeing or hearing anything or there is a priority difference. Where is the United Nations that is ready to send troops to any country on seeing a little chance of danger to the world community? Yes! It is all ironic and the most tragic thing is the behaviour of “Muslim World’s Rulers and Leaders”. They are so silent as if a snake is smelt! I am just drowning again in tears as if what is going to happen to this world if this demarcation keeps on going.

Who is going to wipe out the tears of Palestinians mothers and fathers who are having the dead bodies of their innocent kids in their hands? Where will the homeless children find the warmth of their mothers’ laps? I just read a phrase and it stuck in my mind “You just don’t need to be a Muslim to condemn Israel’s Brutality but You only need to be a Human Being”, If you are for any right reason!!http://aftabnisar.com/the-ironic-worlds-silence-over-genocide-in-gaza/

Swirling Ways of Life !!

We think we are on a continuous path of growth but there is a little child in us who keeps on telling us, we have not mastered the skills of laying all new foundations of Nature. We are born with few instincts and then rest of these are learned by the environment, culture and of course society. But we are individual human beings and when something happens in our lives, mostly our instinctive calling that comes form unconscious mind is far different from what we have learn to act! 

Human psyche has so many different shapes and designs that it puzzles me to tackle with different persons in a same kind of linkage. We are born to prove our worth with what we do and how we deal with the outer world. But I am just too much into this finding that whatever we have suppressed for long, and we are happy with it, and it just sprouts out of a small incident. We see in our very own self the craving and desire to do the same act that might have bitten us so bitter in the past. 

I am not talking about exceptions but I try to give you simple examples like we keep on training ourselves with anger management. But at any moment we snap so high at others, and afterwards we see that we feel guilty that it was only our perception that kept us in most of ways. Similarly we get swayed with false emotions even at a continuous alarm from our mind that it is going to be hurting or difficult to handle. This is how life is taking us in different turns.

We need to separate our irrational beliefs from the rational ones, and then look at the list as what is wrong with adopting a way that is crystal clear in front of us. We can be as successful in mastering our instinctive reactions that is not our self nurturing. Living a successful life depends on prompt actions and reactions that are based on logical reasoning. The emotional element must be hiding behind, and everything must be done in order to make us satisfied afterwards and not to get into any kind of guilt or blame.   

On a Verge of Nervous Breakdown!

I am loosing something that is not what I meant to do but is it really not in my control. It is the biggest disaster in human life when one cannot share what he is actually feeling! He may feels lost or just need a shoulder to cry out his fears and failures but nobody is there. As we all are rational human beings and we are supposed to control our true emotions, to be part of a society that has a strong parameter to check the Nerves of a Sane Person. So we must avoid every single chance to make someone from having an attack of Nervous Breakdown

Isn't it true that we all are swinging in between sanity and insanity? I am not trying to impose my own thoughts but I have seen so many strong people on a brink of nervous breakdown, due to feeling agitated by daily routine where they can’t express what they want to. Even I have found this platform to express my unfulfilled desires, fears, anxieties and thoughts about human beings, and how they are passing the time on this planet called EARTH.

I am feeling a strong craving to form a group of people who can say that they are stressed out and fearful of finding means to live their daily lives. Suppose I am dying and I want to save myself from spiritual or physical drowning then you can suggest me what should I do! It is not a matter of choice for some people to stay away from worries, and not to be afraid of hard times that are coming in their way. I have made some decisions and I want to say Foolish and Unwise to myself but the social paradigms are stopping me to do this.

I cannot claim to be called a person who has no sense to live a life that is bright, brilliant and comfortable. But what do you suggest for people like me who flow with the current of a life’s river, and make mistakes and then are afraid to admit those in front of others. I think such people are born to be different, and they are born to suffer for worst. You may not be able to see such people crying out loud to help them, and to listen to their miseries and pains.

It is here that a person like me thinks of acting like nothing has happened to him or her, and then tries the best to be the most vibrant personality around. Everyone must realize that people are born to be different and it is Nature’s Law. So you cannot fit every personality in the same frame! If everyone around understands this factor then life would be much easier for those, who want to cry out loud, and even need a cognitive training to cope with life in all shades!!

Acquiring Something YOU long Desired is a Mission Accomplished?

Success Ladder with Motivation

I am just swaying in the ocean of thoughts and feel even strange that is it worth spending hours, days and weeks in planning and then celebrating something that is just so material, and not even ours. We are just doing our efforts to have a New Thing in our life and we have never thought that so many people around the globe are looking towards unseen horizons, to have a meal for a single time.

It makes all my accomplishments and fulfilments to a point zero, and I just ponder on what is being left for me to celebrate a victory that is not going to last even for days. I am not sure if I am able to own that thing which I have been bound to receive legally. But law does not coincide with human fragility, and I heard a man who was so happy on having a great success in his job. But on a thrush of a second moment he was struck by a big bus and he was all dead.

Where his aspirations and accomplishments and nobody are even knows what he was planning to do with that reward what he got. In the model world of fragile thoughts, feelings, emotions and desires how can one be satisfied to have a possession of a New Car or a Home. When you are so uncertain about the very next moment. Life sucks at most of times and it is true. We are born to die and we human beings keep on oppressing others as we will never be a part of dust as our ancestors became.

All name and fame will remain here and we will be in a new time and space mechanism, and judgement of our deeds would be made on what we would leave behind in terms of good deeds, and how much we were able to make a single person smile with something so normal. We are going to see a reality where no one will care of what mansion and luxury car we use to drive.

Then how can we be happy and just so calm at achieving something so worldly and material. But on the other hand we are supposed to live this life to fullest, and to acquire everything with fair means. We are leading to a door of eternal happiness that will come to us but we have to live this life in a fullest way. To do this we have to fight all battles within and outside in the open world. Free ourselves from complexes and duplicities, and then to deal with the world as it demands us to be. So we have to cherish every new acquisition!!

Nowhere is Somewhere?

I don't know why I chose this heading but it is so significant to me that I wanted to share some thought with you all. It just happens in someone's life that he is on a brink of new discovery or a loss of something very precious. Actually it happens with many people but some don't bother to keep on harping around the same topic or life event. While here are people like me who got stuck in something and cannot come out easily. Losing something special or a even having a relation gone out of life is very difficult to carry on. 

If you are stuck in a situation where you can't see the upcoming joys and charms of life and feel that this moment is everything and that losing it means an end to s chapter of life that will not return. So it is not a great deal to just enjoy happy moments but it is also important to stay in that very moment, to cherish it fully. When you are in new situation then don't regret that time which was golden and that is gone. It is due to the fact that every single moment is precious and carries its own beauty. 

Feeling are important when you are in a situation where there is no way to be out of it is something really very difficult. I can empathize with all those people who are going through the sense of loss, and it is due to the factor that I used to live in past and kept on feeling the pain of loss that was significant but wasn't helpful to me in anyway. I am not an expert who can give you solid tips but I know one thing for sure that whoever feels like standing nowhere must need a consoling shoulder or a listener. I know that it is self destructive to live in a static condition of self denial or self pity.

It is an important thing to need a positive approach towards future events and a feeling that YOU are too good, and something really GOOD is going to be here for you.  When you visualize yourself doing different life activities then you will definitely get up and start your journey to a destination that might just be in your mind, and your active proceeding will give it real life. You can overcome your all sorts of grief, loss and sufferings if you know that life keeps on leading all human beings to somewhere.

This the true destination of everyone's soul and it is a place that will give you peace and satisfaction. If you catch that Divine Light and know that there is a ultra superior force up there supporting you then you will be re-empowered to shake all negativity and hopelessness, and you will rejuvenate for a travel that will take you to an eternal paradise. 

You will come to know that all pains and sufferings are temporary as same like the joys and happiness that everyone faces even for few moments. You will be happy and and in peace with your self and won't complain for happening that are not only happening to you but so many people around the globe this time and for an unlimited time in history. 

Fight the Anxiety Out of Your Life !!

We live in an environment that is all to difficult to handle for a normal person. If there is an anxiety factor that is related to you then you might be facing so many troubles. We are living in a world of competitions and less of emotional bondings. People are getting far away from each other and they keep their pets and gadgets much closer to them than the human beings. The tolerance and the trust level is shaking due to frequent breakage of bonds and relations. You know all this is greatly damaging the psyche of young children.

They are learning to be aloof and stay away from showing their true feelings even to their parents. The broken family system has segregated every individual to find solace in his or her own way. Some people are getting too much social; or others have opted for a solitude. In fact the practical ground lays in between the both extremes. If you feel like going out for a vacation then do it now. But while doing it you have to concentrate on what you are there for. If you keep on thinking about who said what and why then you are spoiling your day. 

Eventually it is leading to stress, depression and anxiety. the psychic problems are rapidly increasing and it is alarming that young kids are facing these problems to extreme levels. When you can't get out of a mental situation and keep on thinking about it in mid then it becomes a problem. Here is a time for all those people who are becoming pessimists or facing some psychological issues to keep their targets on positive things. They can visualize something great is going to happen to then and believe it or not it happens. 

our unconscious mind creates the whole situation and takes us the few turns that are leading us to right path. You can listen to meditation music, do practical meditation or yoga. Even you can spend sometime in a different place where you can be free from all daily troubles and conflicts. Now look at the positive and beautiful things that are in your stock. Feel it a blessing from  nature and count on it, and do compare your situation with millions out in the world who are striving for one time food. I am sure things will start to be sorted out and you will recover from lower levels of depression or anxiety. 

If you anxiety is overshadowing your true personality then you need to consult a specialist and have a good treatment. You must take medicines that are prescribed and don't feel inferior that you are suffering form some mental problems. These are ailments that are at the same level as someone has caught flu or fever. But keep on exploring the good things that you can do by yourself and believe me these are really helpful!!