Showing posts with label Depression. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Depression. Show all posts

Saturday, April 27, 2019

Soul at Peace is Far more Important than to be on Happiness Quest...!!

Happiness and Soul Satisfaction
I keep on thinking about the patterns of life and what kinds of things make one person happy and the other sad at the same time. When a person does wrong to others like rob or kills someone then he is happy. It may be out of revenge or suppressed desires. But the dying person would never feel the same and his loved ones will go through a whole process of agony. Same is the case with building a relationship that is too good but ends up after a short time!

Why the human race is ins Quest of Happiness when it is crystal clear that it is going to be either a momentary pleasure or a small time joy. Then logic will play its part and each person will feel it quite useless to be excited over things that are no more important. I read from a philosopher and writer’s book that the real pleasure lies in the quest and struggle to attain something and it is destroyed once we achieve it!

Well, I think it is a wonderful quote that explains a lot about the uselessness of looking for clichéd happiness. I think peace of mind and soul are much more important than the short-lived happiness. So why not we must try to attain a feeling of internal peace and a closeness to nature. Every sane person knows that he or she will die one day and nobody knows about AFTERLIFE, and there is no need to waste this small time in hatred for other races, nations, civilizations, and norms!

If we think about the peace and prosperity of the whole of the human race on the planet EARTH then I think it will really give us lasting happiness and act as a soothing effect. I would love to tell you that my love for life goes on for things that are going to have a lasting impression on my life and that of others. So I prefer to look for happiness that comes with making another person smile or to fulfill his or her small desire or need.

Happiness is temporary as we are too indulged in getting its full flavor that we forget the lapse of time. While the period of agony will let lose us in gloominess and bleakest days, and our Minds and Souls ore occupied with Depression and Hopelessness. So it seems to us as a non-ending period. But I am happy that you read my blog and will definitely try to find some New Meaning of Word HAPPINESS. For me, it is so multidimensional and very complex issue. I want to know your perceptions for that sake of my knowledge!!

Saturday, January 24, 2015

Reality Check on Misery due to Failures in Life!!

Reality Check with Soul Awakening
Life altogether an evolutionary process and you cannot ignore the fact that it has upheavals. If you feel that a smooth career and love life is going ahead then all of sudden you might face a new challenge. It might be a rivalry in office or a desperate effort to destabilize your personal or professional life. Then it is due to some illness or lack of motivation to handle difficult situations. Especially when a person fails in life then he get into depression.

But what is the real use of getting into depression and think of yourself as a Lost SOUL. It is a time to face challenges and failures of LIFE with courage. Without devastating yourself from the right track of Optimism and Positive Energy to regain your Vitals Powers. To reduce stress and anxiety in your life. You are able to build a strong barrier between you and your stresses and anxieties. Yes! You are capable of that and only you can do it. 

If you think that an alien force will come to get you out of situation then you are on wrong foot. It is a battle of survival and the instincts are all within you. Only you need to explore your Inner Energies and in fact Your Soul! When you feel lighter and stronger then you will learn that nothing in LIFE happens without a purpose. You are put into a difficult situation to learn something new and Motivational and that is Divine Law. Whole Nature and Universe revolves around the Principal of Optimism or Positivity that is inside YOU!

With each failure in life we learn to deal with problematic situations, and we see that a strong willpower will get us into the next round of issues with much more Patience and Bravery in fact. Once you have fuel of positivity and strong will then nobody can distract you with negative intentions. Just make a good profile of yours in mind first and then keep on pulling great statements about you. It is highly important to get yourself out a failing situation. 

If you have lost a good career, relationship or an opportunity to be a successful person. The next door is open and if you have a clear faith then you will find peace and prosperity soon. Hardships and trials come in the life of those people whom God Almighty wants to prepare for good things. Remember we are sent into this world for trails and for making a strong commitment to our Spiritual Side. Otherwise there would have been no need of let us think of Heaven and a Hell for wrongdoers. Don’t you agree with my point of view?

Monday, October 27, 2014

Desperate Souls!!

Desperate and Lonely Soul
I see lots of people is miseries and pains and facing lots of issues from their routine lives. They want an escape from their daily routines and to live a time with their own selves. It is getting such a bigger issue due to hectic work routines and gadget freaking world that has created a mess all around. So what is a real matter that has occurred with humanity? We have lost a quality time to spend with our loved ones, and even if they might desperately need it at the moment!
So what we can really do as an individual entity is to try to figure out what is happening in the lives of our family members and friends. How we can make small or bigger changes in their situations and lives. We need to extend our love and compassion right now, and ask to give them a comfort level with us so they can speak out their problems and stresses with us easily.

Believe me it will work wonders in your circles and on a whole social scenario. People won’t need to look for strangers to distribute their personal sorrows and pains. The gradual rise in suicide rate all around the globe and especially in the developed countries will definitely reduce. I feel it is due to the gap between Human Souls is widening, and that was not the case with our ancestors. So they had fabulous lives with an atmosphere of share and care all around!

Whenever I see a person with stressful face then it reminds me of the failure of the modern day’s comforts and gadgets. We have failed in getting the peace of mind and soul, and the LOVE connection is long lost. We have fake profiles and obviously fake or temporary relations. The “Genuine” element is all getting messed up with finding ways to kill TIME, and to be unconcerned about the problems of others.

So I really see so many Desperate Souls wandering around for Salvation! Why can’t we empathize and sympathize with others to leave some important movie or to forget about a football match. Yes! We can do it and make so many people peaceful otherwise we will see a great rise if the rate of depression, anxiety and suicide among our fellow Human Beings. Just to see that it is not something with others but can happen to us at any moment in life!

When I need a Human Consolation then I can’t find peace in social networking and in seeing lots of other stuff. People are forgetting about BOOKS which were and still are the Best Companions, and we need to adapt that same old life pattern! We have to focus on keeping a closer look at the troubles and joys of our near and dear ones. Then I think we can find a true peace within, and a new level of motivation to carry that positive impulse all around. Take care not only of yours but of people around!!

Sunday, October 12, 2014

Why Autumn and Depression are Correlated?

Autumn and Loneliness
It is just a thought in my mind right from childhood as if what actually happens in the Season of Autumn that people associate it with Depression, Loneliness, Miseries and Anxieties. I have worked a lot on it and even tried to evaluate the effects of seasons on my mind and thoughts, and people around as well! I have come to a conclusion that mostly it is our internal thought process that makes us Happy or Sad, and it can happen in every season!

Though it is a crystal clear experience that the season of Autumn is a time when leaves are falling, and the sunlight takes a pale yellow look. The harsh winds blow and the whole area is full of dried leaves, and it looks as the sun is trying to hide and let human race fall into a timeless sense of loneliness

The spiritual experts say that the mood swings have little correlation with seasons, and it be triggered up any-time if we are experiencing or going through some difficult or hard times. It is also a time when our SOUL does not meet the required sate of optimism and motivation to get along with realities of life!

When we are having some difficult time then we feel Gloomy and in Blue Mood. So the depression and anxiety overcomes our mind and spirit. So we feel a desperate urge to move around, and to go out of routine circles of life. It happens every day at the time of sunset as well if you can feel so! For those people who are sensitive and can’t repel negative impulses out so easily. This pessimistic approach is everywhere despite the fact that literary persons have tagged this depressive phase of MIND with seasons of Autumn and Winter.

But to tell you the real case it has no relevance especially with autumn season it must not at all be correlated. If you don’t trust me then ask those people who get Success and Happiness in their lives in these seasons. They won’t agree with your point of view of or the literary assumptions. Definitely for them it is the best time ever in their lives! A person in love and finding a new position or of getting a great job will only be jubilant in these moments, regardless of the fact if it happens in spring or in autumn!

So to conclude my outcome as a normal person facing all the troubles, issues, regrets and then joys of life. For me it comes that Life is all about a swirling pool of desires and failures. So it is really necessary to keep our nerves more intact, and to be able to fight the battle of Life and Nature with Positive Force on Mind and Optimism. It is far more practical and wise instead of sitting in a dark corner, and feeling that your mind and soul have lost the energy to face some problematic situations.


It is all too cool to be in all geared up to face challenges of life with full motivation and optimistic approach. You can beat the harsh windy season of autumn with your positive thinking and strong will-power. You will be spiritually elevated and rest in phase where your mind and soul will let you enjoy all seasons with full fervour and joy!!

Friday, August 22, 2014

Soul Purification Would Lead You to Success for Sure!

Motivation is some kind of spirit that sails you forward in life, and to keep you out of distresses when you find any kind of temporary failure. If you accept the fact that life is taking its natural turns and you have to catch the right swirl, in order to reach at the top position then nothing can stop you from Success and to gain freedom from a narrow thinking. Generally our Environment and Social Pressures make us feel all too limited to something that we can easily get out of!

Following a path of positive approach all through your acts, thoughts and talks can create a natural Positive AURA around you. The Spiritual Experts see it as an effect of a “virtue” on mind and soul of a person. I have read and heard about people who were chained or kept imprisoned for no crimes but they kept on fighting the negative battles inside by stating that God is with them, and they will find their solace and salvation here and for sure in the life hereafter. They never broke down and won their Moral Battles!!

Yes! It is a very positive approach and practical as well as logical. Though it is a definite thing that such adherence to Spiritualism and Soul Connection comes with powerful Religious roots and beliefs! But I have seen many people who are in doubt or atheists to practice ancient meditation methods of Muslims, Buddhists and even do Yoga on regular basis. These practices definitely provide a relief to Mind and Soul, and keep all of us motivated to face the hurdles with new passion and vigor. 

So if you are going through a bad patch in your personal or professional life then don’t wait any longer and try to find some easy methods, to make you stress free. You can inhale a lot of positive energy by visualization technique, and take deep breath and sit or lie in an easy posture. Imagine a very beautiful scene, and you are enjoying all the blissful sights, sounds and smells of nature. I am sure that your anxiety, stress and depression would wipe away.

But you have to keep in mind that it is an ongoing and little slow process that will definitely pay you with relief and SUCCESS for sure at the end. You will get rid of your pain and miseries, and find yourself so much charged with Positive Energy and Motivated to do something really great. You can be a next Einstein or Bill Gates, and nature has not stopped producing Great People. Only a determination to follow the path of success and to purify your mind and soul would lead you towards it in a much faster pace as you can ever imagine!

Thursday, August 21, 2014

Success in Waiting for Your Optimism to Gear Up!!

Success Path
Why we are never satisfied with the situation that we are into. It is some kind of psychological issue or it has nothing to do with it, and just a common human phenomenon. Yeah! I can say that anxiety and nervousness is not bad all the times as it precedes us to go for new reasons and chances in our lives. But living a life full of such stresses mean that there is some problem in coping with new situations. So here comes the value of positive thinking and optimism for sure.

When you have moved to some new junction of life that has different offerings, and off course it carries new levels of stresses as well. Then the most important thing is to have a balanced look at the situation. See the positive factors that are seen and try to find the hidden opportunities and learning experience that are going to happen inside a new path. It is far easier to go for new challenges and to achieve goals that are waiting for you!

Just try to think about good thing that are definite part and might be found out at the end of a long struggle. When you keep on following a path that is not so known to you but you can smell success at its end then you must adopt it. It is not a wall written thing that a negative vibe at the start will definitely get you in a big hole. It might take you to new heights of success and glory. If you are confident to go on for achieving bigger things in life then do not follow the pessimistic approach or try to smell failure just before the start.

Make up your mind to deal with new situations by understanding one important factor about life. You can never stay in same situation forever, and after every winter there is a spring. So if you are facing challenges in your personal life or in professional one then stay patient. It is important to tell you that patience has lot of value and it will definitely give you peace and prosperity. For time being, you can practice the self monologue or the deep breathing techniques. You can even go for Yoga or other stress releasing exercises to make your mind all at peace!!

Wednesday, April 23, 2014

How to Compose Yourself When You Cross a Bigger Milestone!


It is a game of life that throws all sorts of balls towards you and it is your potential and expertise to catch the best ones. Is it so the case? I mean as a human do we have such an authority to do so by ourselves? It is a very complicated question but we can leave it aside to reach at some other conclusions. Suppose you have got a goal, ad dream that is too BIG for you and you have no idea how it would be fulfilled.

Then God is kind to you and all circumstances just flow in order to make you cross that bridge of emotions and deep understanding, and to reach at a far off land that has some Earthly Paradise Points. Yes! Every time you experience a joy, moment of success and know a new thing about life then you are getting that earthly bliss that no longer will let you feel hopeless and negative about what life has in store for you.

So you are on verge of self-discovery of how strong you are and how far you can try to hold that rope of hope and change your own destiny. If you stay aloof and keep brooding over spilled milk then no one can save you from depression and inferiority complexes. I know one thing for sure that every successful step towards your goals and desires require something from your soul, and a blood that is spilled in a way to attain a worldly possession is not a destructive thing.

When you are living in this material world then you need to be fair and don’t hide out your own desires from you. Everybody likes to live in Peace, Comfort and Luxury. Nobody ever desires to be in a state where he has to look towards other human beings for daily life’s fulfilments. When you are into life and trying to grab worldly objectives then it is your Real NATURE as how much a fair player you are!


If you believe in destiny and know that leading others to a distress won’t give you a lasting happiness then you will definitely follow a right path. It will lead you from the corridors of eternal peace and a lifelong baggage of happiness will accompany you. What is a true meaning of fulfilling a bigger milestone of your life will come into your real focus and you will not only be feeling victorious but all at a peaceful junction, even after attaining and achieving a awe inspiring Worldly Success!!

Friday, April 18, 2014

Fight the Anxiety Out of Your Life !!



We live in an environment that is all to difficult to handle for a normal person. If there is an anxiety factor that is related to you then you might be facing so many troubles. We are living in a world of competitions and less of emotional bondings. People are getting far away from each other and they keep their pets and gadgets much closer to them than the human beings. The tolerance and the trust level is shaking due to frequent breakage of bonds and relations. You know all this is greatly damaging the psyche of young children.

They are learning to be aloof and stay away from showing their true feelings even to their parents. The broken family system has segregated every individual to find solace in his or her own way. Some people are getting too much social; or others have opted for a solitude. In fact the practical ground lays in between the both extremes. If you feel like going out for a vacation then do it now. But while doing it you have to concentrate on what you are there for. If you keep on thinking about who said what and why then you are spoiling your day. 

Eventually it is leading to stress, depression and anxiety. the psychic problems are rapidly increasing and it is alarming that young kids are facing these problems to extreme levels. When you can't get out of a mental situation and keep on thinking about it in mid then it becomes a problem. Here is a time for all those people who are becoming pessimists or facing some psychological issues to keep their targets on positive things. They can visualize something great is going to happen to then and believe it or not it happens. 

our unconscious mind creates the whole situation and takes us the few turns that are leading us to right path. You can listen to meditation music, do practical meditation or yoga. Even you can spend sometime in a different place where you can be free from all daily troubles and conflicts. Now look at the positive and beautiful things that are in your stock. Feel it a blessing from  nature and count on it, and do compare your situation with millions out in the world who are striving for one time food. I am sure things will start to be sorted out and you will recover from lower levels of depression or anxiety. 

If you anxiety is overshadowing your true personality then you need to consult a specialist and have a good treatment. You must take medicines that are prescribed and don't feel inferior that you are suffering form some mental problems. These are ailments that are at the same level as someone has caught flu or fever. But keep on exploring the good things that you can do by yourself and believe me these are really helpful!!