Self Awareness is a Gift that Few People Cherish but Many Can Learn…!!

Optimism and Motivation for Self Awareness

Life is a continuous struggle that we as humans try to live for our best. We try hard to find the real meaning of life and why our existence is so important for the universe. But, unfortunately very few lead to worthwhile conclusions, and even helpful to sustain and to strive for our very own attainment of heights of glory, peace of soul, and above all to be a part of a better human race. Yes, we must try hard to look to find our real being, and self-awareness is bliss in a way. When people get aware of how their hearts and mind coordinate, and how to give guidance to one’s subconscious and unconscious mind in the right way then things are all going to be very well for us, and humanity in general. 

Deciding to live in peace with what we are gifted by the Divine Rulings, and what is the limitation to our actions, and how to control the wild side that usually exists in every ordinary human being. I am not talking about the superhumans, who have great self-control or are gifted to look beyond their worldly desires, and materialistic approaches towards life and towards other beings. The craving to find relaxed life, true love, and to find success in everything we do is a wish that no sane person can deny for…!!

Each individual has a soul and a desire to live in the best of conditions, and that does not mean to bully, to crush others in the game of success, or to reach the top of a hill, by moving and shaking the inside out of others. If there is a self-awareness of our capabilities, the blessings that we already carry, and our aptitude that must be directed towards something that we highly crave. Then our unconscious mind will take us towards that path with the right decisions and actions at the right time. The wishes must be realistic and there must be an overall positivity in everything we desire for. Some people like to keep the pessimistic approach towards life and other people. 

They want to harm others with their words, actions, and an inside craving to see others suffer. It might be due to their experiences, and the hard and harsh things that others have done to them. But the important thing is to always try to stay away from the emotion of revenge. I don’t ask you to present another cheek if someone slaps you at once. Self-respect is such a precious part of self-awareness that one must never compromise on it. But to keep our nerves in control, and to refrain from damaging another person with our words, actions and attitude are not recommended. Either we must be able to say the truth in front of the one who is hurting our true emotions and giving a jerk to the soul. In another case, forgive or forget is the best option…!!

The concept of forgiveness and forgetting carries a pearl of inherited wisdom, as we let our mind and soul not be able to suffer from the things that don’t matter in our path and struggle to live a better life. Then the second-best thing happens that we don’t want our emotions and energy in negative ways, and give ourselves a lesson that other person’s deeds and words do not reflect me. I am going to define myself in the way I see myself, and how I want to grow and groom. Self-nurturing and growth is natural process, and we keep on learning at every age. If we are aware of our own flaws and weaknesses then we are better able to correct and control ourselves for our very own good life and physical, emotional, and mental health, and to have a peaceful soul….!! 

Something About the Author

 Life is a journey from cradle till grave embraces someone. But what comes in a journey is not always by someone’s choice, and still we live our lives with our own set of goals. We are triumphant at very many times, and then sometimes there are trials and errors that make us learn to do something else that was not in our personal set roadmap. It is called learning from events, life lessons and the experiences that shape our personalities. Ask us to be strong, confident, learn new things, and then an individual is all settled to swim in the deep oceans. One thing that goes for me from my childhood is trying to learn new and innovative things. If you give me a book then I don’t need to have any social activity or media to shadow me with loud and dramatic sounds.

Well, I am not in any way anti-social in any way if you assume from my earlier description. I love to interact, communicate, read, and write blogs, articles, poetry, music, movies and social media. Off course, reading and writing wear and still are my passion from the childhood. I did my first Masters Degree in Business Administration. It was something of a dream by the youth of 90s. It was really interesting to go through such diverse subjects, and to come to know about new theories and concepts. My majors was in Marketing. It was all fun to study but the craving to read and more than that to get a degree in literature was in my veins, pushing me to move for another degree, and the one I always love to attain! So, there I went with an admission in Masters in English Language and Literature. It opened my eyes to a new world. Full of ideas, thoughts, thought provoking philosophies by different authors and poets.

I guess that was the point in my life when I felt that I must be a writer and to have my own book by my side one fine day. My hunger to read more of world’s literature didn’t stop me top English only. I read the cream of Urdu literature, Russian, Brazilian, French, Latin, German, American and Chinese literature. There I feel my outer and inner eyes got a wider opening, and I could sense the human nature and psychology to a greater depth. I moved with people and cultures and tried to understand human miseries, sorrows, joys and generic emotions. Literature helped me be a better, sensible, calm, silent observer, to understand the value of integrity and self-esteem which are my prime focus where I am living or working. So, these things are not compromised otherwise I am a very compassionate person.

Even I try to forgive and forget the typical professional politics and other such games. Being professional and keeping yourself to your own tasks, and within your comfort zone is mostly up to you. I studies and learnt it from proper professionals who were my mentors at different stages of personal and professional life. I got my third degree in Philosophy as anybody who thinks quietly or loudly is a philosopher in my opinion. The study of philosophy made me realize the fact “Grass in Not Green for Everyone”. So, all we need to do is to keep on moving with our own goals, and with our best pace.

To never lose motivation and optimism for the sake of some people or experiences. Who actually came in my way to teach something new and how to be a part of the bandwagon of obsessive cult of people who can bulldoze anyone for the sake of saving their jobs or to make points? I am a simple, normal and a sane person who loves to do what he is assigned to do, and then there is my comfort zone that is out of my job and daily chores. I am self-blogger and a love to read, write, watch movies and travel if get chance and fine time.

To never lose motivation and optimism for the sake of some people or experiences. Who actually came in my way to teach something new and how to be a part of the bandwagon of obsessive cult of people who can bulldoze anyone for the sake of saving their jobs or to make points? I am a simple, normal and a sane person who loves to do what he is assigned to do, and then there is my comfort zone that is out of my job and daily chores. I am self-blogger and a love to read, write, watch movies and travel if get chance and fine time.

Beauty and Beholder’s Eyes!

 

Beauty and Human Perceptions

I wonder how this whole world seems to every person, and is there a same phenomenon of objectively defining Beauty all around the globe. According to my perception it is not the case as every region has its own standards of human as well as natural beauty. A European concept of beauty is quite different from Asian, and then from African or Far Eastern standards.

The old age concept is quitter true as the real aesthetics lie in every individual‘s eyes. So the beholder’s perception about love and beauty is all too important. I see so many things around like a windy day and the swirling of trees but when I discuss about these attributes of Nature to my friends or Colleagues. They say “We don’t find it very much exciting”. Even I was surprised at the statement when I read that ‘Nelson Mandela’ said about his ex-wife ‘Winnie’ being the most beautiful woman on earth.

I got a shock like she was even so ordinary according to African standards of beauty. So I get a new realization that the Love and Aura attraction supersedes the rest of resorts and parameters. When you are in love then your beloved is the most beautiful human being ever created in planet earth. Similarly some traditional standards of beauty announce some lady or gentleman to be the sexiest and most beautiful person. At the same time we can hear so many people rejecting these labels.

At the same level when I say that I like autumn and fallen leaves as one of the most beautiful sights then most of people reject my thesis. It is not due to prejudice but a Divine Will to make different sorts of attractions for different human beings. Otherwise the world would have been so tale and sluggish as goods were all time good and bad things were always on a black list!

So my dear readers when you are going to admire about someone then just leave this expectation out of your mind that everyone will nod YES to you. So have your own perception about the beautiful objects, and then also try to analyze how other people see things with different perspectives. Try to learn the art of loving everything that is radiating positivity into the world, and a matter of joy for some good reasons. Here Inner Beauty comes as the best and foremost choice for everyone!!

Reality Check on Misery due to Failures in Life!!

Reality Check with Soul Awakening

Life altogether an evolutionary process and you cannot ignore the fact that it has upheavals. If you feel that a smooth career and love life is going ahead then all of sudden you might face a new challenge. It might be a rivalry in office or a desperate effort to destabilize your personal or professional life. Then it is due to some illness or lack of motivation to handle difficult situations. Especially when a person fails in life then he get into depression.

But what is the real use of getting into depression and think of yourself as a Lost SOUL. It is a time to face challenges and failures of LIFE with courage. Without devastating yourself from the right track of Optimism and Positive Energy to regain your Vitals Powers. To reduce stress and anxiety in your life. You are able to build a strong barrier between you and your stresses and anxieties. Yes! You are capable of that and only you can do it. 

If you think that an alien force will come to get you out of situation then you are on wrong foot. It is a battle of survival and the instincts are all within you. Only you need to explore your Inner Energies and in fact Your Soul! When you feel lighter and stronger then you will learn that nothing in LIFE happens without a purpose. You are put into a difficult situation to learn something new and Motivational and that is Divine Law. Whole Nature and Universe revolves around the Principal of Optimism or Positivity that is inside YOU!

With each failure in life we learn to deal with problematic situations, and we see that a strong willpower will get us into the next round of issues with much more Patience and Bravery in fact. Once you have fuel of positivity and strong will then nobody can distract you with negative intentions. Just make a good profile of yours in mind first and then keep on pulling great statements about you. It is highly important to get yourself out a failing situation. 

If you have lost a good career, relationship or an opportunity to be a successful person. The next door is open and if you have a clear faith then you will find peace and prosperity soon. Hardships and trials come in the life of those people whom God Almighty wants to prepare for good things. Remember we are sent into this world for trails and for making a strong commitment to our Spiritual Side. Otherwise there would have been no need of let us think of Heaven and a Hell for wrongdoers. Don’t you agree with my point of view?

Freedom of Expression Does Not Lie in Abandoning Basic Human Rights!

Freedom of Expression Limits at Others Face

Life is always evolutionary and we are constantly witnessing the ironic dualism that the present world is facing. We have seen the double standards of modern and sophisticated world when we see double standers in dealing with same kinds of situations. Human Rights have a direct impact on how people of one region, ideology and religion see about it. So we have to be very careful when we define the vague boundaries of Freedom of Expression. What is a normal talk for you might hurt me deep inside my soul!

So it is time to draw a borderline where there is real Expression in written and visual forms, and how it turns into violating public sentiments of a community or religion. I can say bad about someone parents and cannot ignore the aftermath by saying that I have a right to say everything. First of all, I have to understand as who has set the standards of Freedom of Mind, Heart and Soul. How I can say what I feel right without hurting other person’s emotions.

When I am stepping the boundary of other one’s personal or ideological red line that I am doing an irreparable damage.  It is really very important to know that I am born free but each society and culture puts some bans on my exhibitions. If I keep on saying and presenting insults to an individual or a community’s strong emotional bonding then I am responsible for the damage. So we all need to live in PEACE and let others live in the same phase. 

Why this world cannot be a place of peace and comfort for us and others around. Most of times, it is our selfish approach that we want to do whatever fits best to us and do not think about others. If we keep on thinking that we have to live our lives with Motivation and Optimism, and we are not ruining the set standards of showing respect of other Human Beings. Whether it is concerned with their faith or their political or social beliefs. We are doing great damage to the whole world.

The negative vibes do not remain to a certain time but it is a boomerang of actions and reactions around. We are going to reap the fruits of the seeds that we sow. If we are safe then our future generations will be going to pay for it. Isn’t it right that we can stay responsible and act like people who really respect other person’s spiritual and Ideological Belief Systems.

Then we are spreading positive waves around that will caused us to be all in contentment and we will never be guilty of a root of damage to the world and the Human Rights as well. Stay at peace and let others in the way must the policy of everyone in the world. We are doing something right for the world and then only we can expect good for us. Otherwise all rallies and protest will remain fruitless, and nobody can save us from the damages that we have caused to Human Souls intentionally or unintentionally!!

Desperate Souls!!

Desperate and Lonely Soul

I see lots of people is miseries and pains and facing lots of issues from their routine lives. They want an escape from their daily routines and to live a time with their own selves. It is getting such a bigger issue due to hectic work routines and gadget freaking world that has created a mess all around. So what is a real matter that has occurred with humanity? We have lost a quality time to spend with our loved ones, and even if they might desperately need it at the moment!

So what we can really do as an individual entity is to try to figure out what is happening in the lives of our family members and friends. How we can make small or bigger changes in their situations and lives. We need to extend our love and compassion right now, and ask to give them a comfort level with us so they can speak out their problems and stresses with us easily.

Believe me it will work wonders in your circles and on a whole social scenario. People won’t need to look for strangers to distribute their personal sorrows and pains. The gradual rise in suicide rate all around the globe and especially in the developed countries will definitely reduce. I feel it is due to the gap between Human Souls is widening, and that was not the case with our ancestors. So they had fabulous lives with an atmosphere of share and care all around!

Whenever I see a person with stressful face then it reminds me of the failure of the modern day’s comforts and gadgets. We have failed in getting the peace of mind and soul, and the LOVE connection is long lost. We have fake profiles and obviously fake or temporary relations. The “Genuine” element is all getting messed up with finding ways to kill TIME, and to be unconcerned about the problems of others.

So I really see so many Desperate Souls wandering around for Salvation! Why can’t we empathize and sympathize with others to leave some important movie or to forget about a football match. Yes! We can do it and make so many people peaceful otherwise we will see a great rise if the rate of depression, anxiety and suicide among our fellow Human Beings. Just to see that it is not something with others but can happen to us at any moment in life!

When I need a Human Consolation then I can’t find peace in social networking and in seeing lots of other stuff. People are forgetting about BOOKS which were and still are the Best Companions, and we need to adapt that same old life pattern! We have to focus on keeping a closer look at the troubles and joys of our near and dear ones. Then I think we can find a true peace within, and a new level of motivation to carry that positive impulse all around. Take care not only of yours but of people around!!