True Love Needs No Parameters of Expression!

 

Love and Human Psyche

It might be my own perception but I like it that way, and I am convinced that true love exists right here in this world. People do fall in love for other persons and it requires no specifications. How we define LOVE is something that needs to be discussed. Some people think that a quantity of time spent together is a parameter of true love while others believe in quality of it!

How to Define Love in Different Perspectives!

So it is hot debate among different races in ancient times, and a subject matter of literature in medieval age, and it is a far Complex Issue in Modern Times. We are not certain of what we really mean by loving someone. Here I am referring to ‘Romantic Love’ but I am not forgetting the importance of Love and Compassion for different blood relations, friends and for nature as well!

What Kind of People Fall in Love for General Humanity and for What Reasons!

People do fall in love at a broader spectrum and they do not bind themselves with only a single expression, and to devote their love for only one human being. Look at the example of “Mother Teresa” who left her life of conveniences, and devoted herself to serve the underprivileged people of India. Did she put all efforts for personal recognition or for wining some award like ‘Nobel Prize’? No! It happened out of a true emotional love for humanity and for seeing people in better conditions of life.

Why People Sacrifice their Comforts for the Love and Freedom of their Nations?

Here I would like to mention about “Muhammad Ali Jinnah” whom the citizens of Pakistan call “Father of the Nation”. He literally devoted his whole life for the sake of independence and freedom of his countrymen, and to let a separate homeland for Muslim of Sub Continent, to live in peace and practice their basic principles of Islam in a best manner. Why he did all this as he was a successful lawyer and a rich man? He enjoyed all luxuries of his time, and what made him stand out of crowd to and decide to devote his life for others!

What is the Motivational Factor of Love of Nation to Fight for a Cause?

It is just too phenomenal with some people that they Love to find PEACE and Comfort for others, and they go beyond imagination to make personal sacrifices for others. Here you can look at the life of “Nelson Mandela” who devoted 27 years in prison, to let black people of South Africa have their right of equality, and a right to live like rest of human beings of the world. Would you say that he was crazy? No he was not but in fact more practical than living in dreams like others of a seen or unseen beloved!!

What is the Reality of Divine Love and Spiritual Elevation!

On a further level of discussion we can look at the lives of those Spiritual Leaders who left all worldly leisure and pleasures for seeking Divine Love. They were not insane but they wanted to escape from the limited mind frame that only wanted to get material gains, and to fall for lust in order to gain Love kind of thing. Their love for Nature and God Almighty was and still is all pure, and it is beyond any expectations and gains for this world.

So I would love to conclude my hypothesis that there are no set standards and parameters of love. So there were and right at this moment there exist people who fall in multifaceted kinds of love. This will keep on happening, and eventually link to the Universe, to find true meaning of Human Existence and to go in search of pure and deep-rooted love for sure!!

Reality Check on Misery due to Failures in Life!!

Reality Check with Soul Awakening

Life altogether an evolutionary process and you cannot ignore the fact that it has upheavals. If you feel that a smooth career and love life is going ahead then all of sudden you might face a new challenge. It might be a rivalry in office or a desperate effort to destabilize your personal or professional life. Then it is due to some illness or lack of motivation to handle difficult situations. Especially when a person fails in life then he get into depression.

But what is the real use of getting into depression and think of yourself as a Lost SOUL. It is a time to face challenges and failures of LIFE with courage. Without devastating yourself from the right track of Optimism and Positive Energy to regain your Vitals Powers. To reduce stress and anxiety in your life. You are able to build a strong barrier between you and your stresses and anxieties. Yes! You are capable of that and only you can do it. 

If you think that an alien force will come to get you out of situation then you are on wrong foot. It is a battle of survival and the instincts are all within you. Only you need to explore your Inner Energies and in fact Your Soul! When you feel lighter and stronger then you will learn that nothing in LIFE happens without a purpose. You are put into a difficult situation to learn something new and Motivational and that is Divine Law. Whole Nature and Universe revolves around the Principal of Optimism or Positivity that is inside YOU!

With each failure in life we learn to deal with problematic situations, and we see that a strong willpower will get us into the next round of issues with much more Patience and Bravery in fact. Once you have fuel of positivity and strong will then nobody can distract you with negative intentions. Just make a good profile of yours in mind first and then keep on pulling great statements about you. It is highly important to get yourself out a failing situation. 

If you have lost a good career, relationship or an opportunity to be a successful person. The next door is open and if you have a clear faith then you will find peace and prosperity soon. Hardships and trials come in the life of those people whom God Almighty wants to prepare for good things. Remember we are sent into this world for trails and for making a strong commitment to our Spiritual Side. Otherwise there would have been no need of let us think of Heaven and a Hell for wrongdoers. Don’t you agree with my point of view?

Freedom of Expression Does Not Lie in Abandoning Basic Human Rights!

Freedom of Expression Limits at Others Face

Life is always evolutionary and we are constantly witnessing the ironic dualism that the present world is facing. We have seen the double standards of modern and sophisticated world when we see double standers in dealing with same kinds of situations. Human Rights have a direct impact on how people of one region, ideology and religion see about it. So we have to be very careful when we define the vague boundaries of Freedom of Expression. What is a normal talk for you might hurt me deep inside my soul!

So it is time to draw a borderline where there is real Expression in written and visual forms, and how it turns into violating public sentiments of a community or religion. I can say bad about someone parents and cannot ignore the aftermath by saying that I have a right to say everything. First of all, I have to understand as who has set the standards of Freedom of Mind, Heart and Soul. How I can say what I feel right without hurting other person’s emotions.

When I am stepping the boundary of other one’s personal or ideological red line that I am doing an irreparable damage.  It is really very important to know that I am born free but each society and culture puts some bans on my exhibitions. If I keep on saying and presenting insults to an individual or a community’s strong emotional bonding then I am responsible for the damage. So we all need to live in PEACE and let others live in the same phase. 

Why this world cannot be a place of peace and comfort for us and others around. Most of times, it is our selfish approach that we want to do whatever fits best to us and do not think about others. If we keep on thinking that we have to live our lives with Motivation and Optimism, and we are not ruining the set standards of showing respect of other Human Beings. Whether it is concerned with their faith or their political or social beliefs. We are doing great damage to the whole world.

The negative vibes do not remain to a certain time but it is a boomerang of actions and reactions around. We are going to reap the fruits of the seeds that we sow. If we are safe then our future generations will be going to pay for it. Isn’t it right that we can stay responsible and act like people who really respect other person’s spiritual and Ideological Belief Systems.

Then we are spreading positive waves around that will caused us to be all in contentment and we will never be guilty of a root of damage to the world and the Human Rights as well. Stay at peace and let others in the way must the policy of everyone in the world. We are doing something right for the world and then only we can expect good for us. Otherwise all rallies and protest will remain fruitless, and nobody can save us from the damages that we have caused to Human Souls intentionally or unintentionally!!

Why Autumn and Depression are Correlated?

Autumn and Loneliness

It is just a thought in my mind right from childhood as if what actually happens in the Season of Autumn that people associate it with Depression, Loneliness, Miseries and Anxieties. I have worked a lot on it and even tried to evaluate the effects of seasons on my mind and thoughts, and people around as well! I have come to a conclusion that mostly it is our internal thought process that makes us Happy or Sad, and it can happen in every season!

Though it is a crystal clear experience that the season of Autumn is a time when leaves are falling, and the sunlight takes a pale yellow look. The harsh winds blow and the whole area is full of dried leaves, and it looks as the sun is trying to hide and let human race fall into a timeless sense of loneliness. 

The spiritual experts say that the mood swings have little correlation with seasons, and it be triggered up any-time if we are experiencing or going through some difficult or hard times. It is also a time when our SOUL does not meet the required sate of optimism and motivation to get along with realities of life!

When we are having some difficult time then we feel Gloomy and in Blue Mood. So the depression and anxiety overcomes our mind and spirit. So we feel a desperate urge to move around, and to go out of routine circles of life. It happens every day at the time of sunset as well if you can feel so! For those people who are sensitive and can’t repel negative impulses out so easily. This pessimistic approach is everywhere despite the fact that literary persons have tagged this depressive phase of MIND with seasons of Autumn and Winter.

But to tell you the real case it has no relevance especially with autumn season it must not at all be correlated. If you don’t trust me then ask those people who get Success and Happiness in their lives in these seasons. They won’t agree with your point of view of or the literary assumptions. Definitely for them it is the best time ever in their lives! A person in love and finding a new position or of getting a great job will only be jubilant in these moments, regardless of the fact if it happens in spring or in autumn!

So to conclude my outcome as a normal person facing all the troubles, issues, regrets and then joys of life. For me it comes that Life is all about a swirling pool of desires and failures. So it is really necessary to keep our nerves more intact, and to be able to fight the battle of Life and Nature with Positive Force on Mind and Optimism. It is far more practical and wise instead of sitting in a dark corner, and feeling that your mind and soul have lost the energy to face some problematic situations.

It is all too cool to be in all geared up to face challenges of life with full motivation and optimistic approach. You can beat the harsh windy season of autumn with your positive thinking and strong will-power. You will be spiritually elevated and rest in phase where your mind and soul will let you enjoy all seasons with full fervour and joy!!

A Place on Earth to Find True Peace of Mind

Tranquility and Spiritual Elevation

Sometimes we are so much distracted with some desires and aspirations that we forget that living a peaceful life is the most important things. We are busy with daily chores of life or to make a course of action to get prosperous and wealthy. But we are losing a space where we can have a soul satisfaction. Does it come from any worldly gains or from having a job done in a right perspective? I think it is a matter of living a life that is according to your comfort zone which must never overlap the others around!

We might be facing some temporary troubles that remind us of good times that we used to have, and it is so obvious with human nature. Life keeps on evolving and have to grow with it, and I do admit that we are not able to make pace with tangles and complexities of life as normal human being. But here a question arises as what we have learnt from our previous failures, and have we gone ahead or just get stuck due to lack of aspirations and finding comfortable life ahead.

If you think so a case with yourself then you need to be conscious and try to exhale all negative thoughts with a breathing in of fresh and innovative ideas. Just takes everything in life like a flow of ocean’s wave. Some high tides might take you in a dangerous position but if you stay stable and confident then you will be in a pool of peace and tranquillity. Yes! It happens with every mind and soul and only people don’t follow the right vibes on time.

If you feel like going on a trip to some good place to have a Soul Satisfaction then don’t keep on postponing it further. If you know a place or spiritual healing and training centre then make a quick centre. Meditation helps out lots of people from getting out of stressful situations, and to find peace and motivation. Just try to have an optimistic approach that your problems will be solved and you can find a real Peace of Mind and Soul but with little effort.

You might not find it in a blog or going to a mentor. But you can attain that level of Spiritual Attainment where you are no more worried about material gains and losses. You will on more be sad on failure of a project that you thought to work for you. You will be motivated and excited with a new finding and to travel on that path of self-discovery and personal growth. Believe me it is worth experiencing and for very good reasons.

Why WE Prefer to Leave Peace of Mind for Material Gains?

Spiritual Peace and Nature

I am pondering on one situation that is so much common with modern man, and that is to switch from one place or job to another for the sake of material gains. It happens everywhere and at the cost of having a tough and hard life but we keep on doing that. I remember a long time ago when I was attending a sitting session with a great intellectual of our earlier times. He asked all of us being Representatives of Youth.

He asked us a simple question that was outwardly simple but carried a great Wisdom Path. He asked us all as if why we were losing our Precious Lives and Present Moment for the sake of gaining high salary jobs, and to upgrade our Social Status. Everybody tried to give answer but I was silent not because I had followed his hidden point, but due to the fact that I was always on the point to live a peaceful life, and if prosperity comes as ALLAH’s Will then we need to be thankful for it. But not to follow the blind path of Success that might lead us to distresses and depressions.

Now the question arises as why we are fighting this battle of hardships as to win some name, and to get more luxuries. Isn't it an irony that we do not know as if we would be alive on the very next day? But we keep on striving on this strange path of so-called glory and growth? Dreams and Desires are unlimited, and who will make a fine balance to let his or her SOUL all in Peace? Modern world with attractive gadgets all around make us all blindfolded to keep on moving on a path that might not be meant for us. Here I would tell you few harms of this unnecessary battle of Material and Social Growth!

Losing the Creative Self

Yes! We are losing the creative minds and the motivation to do something so awful that the world will remember us. We are only longing for comforts and luxuries and do not want to learn new arts, and to get into world of charismatic creativity for the sake of it any more!

Social Isolation and Increase in Psychological Issues

Now people don’t have time to spend with their loved ones as everybody says around “Time is Money”. But have you seen that the distraction and ignorance has caused a whole generation of direction-less Youth. Now old people live in Old Homes and nobody bothers the psychological and Soulful needs of another person!

Sense of Materialism Prevails on a Larger Scale

Now look at the motives and hidden truth behind all our moves. We want to be social in order to get any sort of benefit for future. We do not concentrate on agonies and pains of others, and just try to be friends for good worldly reasons.

I have highlighted some major issues that the whole world is facing in terms of Humanity and losing connection with Hearts, Minds and Souls of others. We have lost the true value of precious love that had an ability to bind us together in families, groups and societies for better reasons. Now we see the chaos all around, and people gather to protect their rights or to gain some negative motives. Spirituality and Mysticism has lost its value, and we can’t find any more people so easily who are having Divine Light with them, to heal our souls and to direct us towards Peace of Mind as well!