Showing posts with label Social Paradigms. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Social Paradigms. Show all posts

Tuesday, July 29, 2014

How to Purify Our Souls from Destructive Desires!!



Motivation and Optimism to live a Peaceful Life

I am long been focusing on different things that happen in my life and that of others, and try to find out one thing. what is the real cause of so much stress, anxiety and mental disorders. Yes! I think I have found out a clue and that is hidden in our long term desires to be free from something that has become a part of our second nature. We keep on giving ourselves so many self statements about being happy, contented and motivated but in fact we are not!

Yes I am telling you a real time tragedy of all modern civilization and that is the carrying on of burden on our shoulders of few things that might have solution but we are stuck is those ones due to social or economic pressures. Suppose I don't want to switch to a New Job that is even highly paying but makes me uncomfortable to get out of my long desired comfort zone. It is a right thing on my part. People with all brain would say that it is so wise to go on a ladder of success and to be all contented.

Here I have not other objection then on "Contentment" and does it come with material prosperity or it comes from a peaceful mind and heart. It comes from long meditation and freedom of SOUL from so many whims and wishes that might not even affect the quality of life that e live. So now there is a battle of survival of the clichéd Best, and on the other hand is a Soulful Peace. I think it is not a bad option if you leave some worldly races to win, in order to find what you find peace at!

Make a comparative analysis of what makes you happy, and I have reached at a conclusion. I am happy with small things like asking my maid's daughter to play with my little girl. I can find peace in writing form myself without having a desire to get an applaud. I can find peace to be in solidarity with people who are in pain and distress like those of Palestine, Afghanistan, Iraq, Syria, Myanmar and so many other places. I am at peace to able to feed one single soul a meal of the day!

So it is mine and your time as well to keep our lines straight as what we really need. Just separate the Social Paradigms and Standards. Just forget about bills for quite a time though it is hardcore reality. Just imagine that you are free to choose a course of action and which is your most preferred way.

Once you are done with it then your mind would be clear, and you will be able to make a decision about your future life that is totally on your instincts minus the other People factor, and I guaranteed you that whatever you choose will be much more productive and healthier then the earlier one that you were trying as a part of a common practice done by everyone. Good Luck!!

Thursday, April 24, 2014

On a Verge of Nervous Breakdown!



I am loosing something that is not what I meant to do but is it really not in my control. It is the biggest disaster in human life when one cannot share what he is actually feeling! He may feels lost or just need a shoulder to cry out his fears and failures but nobody is there. As we all are rational human beings and we are supposed to control our true emotions, to be part of a society that has a strong parameter to check the Nerves of a Sane Person. So we must avoid every single chance to make someone from having an attack of Nervous Breakdown

Isn't it true that we all are swinging in between sanity and insanity? I am not trying to impose my own thoughts but I have seen so many strong people on a brink of nervous breakdown, due to feeling agitated by daily routine where they can’t express what they want to. Even I have found this platform to express my unfulfilled desires, fears, anxieties and thoughts about human beings, and how they are passing the time on this planet called EARTH.

I am feeling a strong craving to form a group of people who can say that they are stressed out and fearful of finding means to live their daily lives. Suppose I am dying and I want to save myself from spiritual or physical drowning then you can suggest me what should I do! It is not a matter of choice for some people to stay away from worries, and not to be afraid of hard times that are coming in their way. I have made some decisions and I want to say Foolish and Unwise to myself but the social paradigms are stopping me to do this.

I cannot claim to be called a person who has no sense to live a life that is bright, brilliant and comfortable. But what do you suggest for people like me who flow with the current of a life’s river, and make mistakes and then are afraid to admit those in front of others. I think such people are born to be different, and they are born to suffer for worst. You may not be able to see such people crying out loud to help them, and to listen to their miseries and pains.

It is here that a person like me thinks of acting like nothing has happened to him or her, and then tries the best to be the most vibrant personality around. Everyone must realize that people are born to be different and it is Nature’s Law. So you cannot fit every personality in the same frame! If everyone around understands this factor then life would be much easier for those, who want to cry out loud, and even need a cognitive training to cope with life in all shades!!