Wednesday, June 25, 2014

Swirling Ways of Life !!



We think we are on a continuous path of growth but there is a little child in us who keeps on telling us, we have not mastered the skills of laying all new foundations of Nature. We are born with few instincts and then rest of these are learned by the environment, culture and of course society. But we are individual human beings and when something happens in our lives, mostly our instinctive calling that comes form unconscious mind is far different from what we have learn to act! 

Human psyche has so many different shapes and designs that it puzzles me to tackle with different persons in a same kind of linkage. We are born to prove our worth with what we do and how we deal with the outer world. But I am just too much into this finding that whatever we have suppressed for long, and we are happy with it, and it just sprouts out of a small incident. We see in our very own self the craving and desire to do the same act that might have bitten us so bitter in the past. 

I am not talking about exceptions but I try to give you simple examples like we keep on training ourselves with anger management. But at any moment we snap so high at others, and afterwards we see that we feel guilty that it was only our perception that kept us in most of ways. Similarly we get swayed with false emotions even at a continuous alarm from our mind that it is going to be hurting or difficult to handle. This is how life is taking us in different turns.

We need to separate our irrational beliefs from the rational ones, and then look at the list as what is wrong with adopting a way that is crystal clear in front of us. We can be as successful in mastering our instinctive reactions that is not our self nurturing. Living a successful life depends on prompt actions and reactions that are based on logical reasoning. The emotional element must be hiding behind, and everything must be done in order to make us satisfied afterwards and not to get into any kind of guilt or blame.   

Monday, June 23, 2014

Relations are Test???


I had a query in my mind for a long time and then I thought of putting it right right here in front of you. Do our relationships are for  help and building a social bonding circle or sometimes it is just a Test! I have seen so many sweet relations getting sour over issues that are baseless, and then you can just keep on harping on the same bush. I don't know but I feel like sometimes we are overburdened with an emotion to please others and to Jeep ourselves in act in a shell for the sake f keeping something really going!

I is a negative emotion and it would hardly affect YOU in a positive way. First of all never undermine yourself for the sake of just others. be nice, helpful, caring and lovable but don't let your self esteem being ruined by other people. You are a unique self and owe a lot to your own. If you don't respect the sanctity of your thought then don't expect it from others. 

People will ruin you and make you feel like hell but just ignore. You are what you say to yourself and what you believe in. I am not going to any long argument but I feel for us to think which relationship is annoying us and even bulldozing us for no solid reason. So let yourself be the master of the situation with sweet turns, and I am not asking you to be rude to ill mannered. Just maintain a safe distance especially from your friends and colleagues as they take great advantage of what is your real nature.

Be nice and go out of way to help others and never let anyone feel that you are giving them something charitable. If you change your perceptions then everything will work perfectly well for you and your life. Just go far ahead of time and think of what is in your head for sure. It will benefit you for all the times to come. Keep on following my simple tips and you will be a great social person who has his or her very unique personality!

Friday, June 20, 2014

Taste of Death


Road to Eternity
I smelled death right beside me
I smiled and looked for a curious reason
Death is something so long awaited
but
I felt it my companion who could understand me
and knows why 
I wanted to see it arriving at remote times
But it is not going to give me a halfway solutions
To all that that I have
I need to fix few things, mend others
and then
Accept it most graciously at a time when my things are done
When no one can blame me to leave halfway
But do I have any authority
Though it is my intimate friend
But no it is not going to ask me!
Touch me by shoulder and look for permission
So I am trying to grab little bit of deeds
That might please the Divine Authority
But I have no chance to set it my way!!

Thursday, June 5, 2014

Time Sets Us Free or Chained?

Waiting for Freedom
I am wandering for so long as what is a real Human Destiny, and why we keep on waiting for future when the only time we have is NOW. Yes! It is a great irony of all human individuals that we keep on framing ourselves in perfect situation in the days that nobody has seen. If my soul is aching right now then I need an antidote for it right now, not in a time zone that might not even exist for me!

I am afraid that I cannot express what I really feel when I am referring to present moment and its importance in our real lives. If I wait for a blissful moment that is no-existent right now then I am wasting my energies like all you guys. I have to have only one option, to spend this time in something that is fruitful and peaceful for me and for others around me. I am not saying that you should shun off all opportunities or plans that you have long made for coming years. So the time must make us free and not chained into a series of duties that we must perform before death!

Here I would like to give you my example as I went on a road trip last month, and considered it to be an escape from my daily chores and responsibilities. I am not afraid of daily life works and challenges but I wanted to rejuvenate my soul my soul or spirit to come back with new vigour. To start my responsibilities in a much nourished and refreshed way. I got tired of travelling but I kept on seeing things with a great feel that I might not be able to return to those lands. So just chill out and see everything.

I saw life in so many colours as it was a countryside with quite a culture that is still deeply rooted with Earth. So I saw historical and kind of timeless monuments, and then I realized a new factor as who made those monuments. Those people must be having only one thing in mind to make glorious buildings, and to make a huge impact on the people of their times. But where are those people who built those monuments and the ones who were supposed to be suppressed. All are gone and only a historical transcript is placed at every place!

Now such a common man can move through the corridors of power and glory! It reminds me of the real essence of life. To make your life easy for yourself and for others as everybody is going to die. But the history is so cruel that it would only make a board or transcript of yours. So live in a mode as tomorrow you are going to die, and do deeds that can make you alive in the memories of people. The ones that are sweet and a feeling of love and gratitude for you. My journey was both inside out so I realized it so strongly to share it with you!!