Sometimes It is Good to Revisit Our Past to have Reality Checks…!!

Life, History, and Reality

I am supposed to be an optimistic person with a motivation to lead my life, and a vision to stay in the present moment as it is the only time we have. But, it is not always the case as visiting our past and revisiting history for the sake of learning and finding how man builds and destroys his individual or collective life. My visit to the past was somehow unplanned, and it started with a movie that I had watched around twenty years back. There was a favorite actor of mine in it, and he was one of the most dashing, smart, and stylish actors of that time. I wonder if his looks and style are still up to the present time fashion. 

That’s how some people stay ahead of time and can display something that is called the evergreen sort of thing. I had a flash of memories associated not with that film but with the period, and the age when I first watched it. The depressive issues, problems, and the vigor to conquer the world in those youthful times were visualized again. Then I kept on comparing my present time lifestyle, the issues, my mindset, and how I have transformed. 

In many cases, I am much more strong, self-awareness and wisdom might be more. But the vigor, enthusiasm, and charm, and attraction towards life are quite lessened. I was trying to find out the real meaning of life right now. Why and how people are so much indulged in running behind the material world, false emotions, fallacies, and fall from grace for the sake of other mortal humans. Who left us long ago without giving a second thought and value to our love, feelings, and emotions? What was the use of trying to be in the hearts and minds of others when in the end others use us for their pastimes, and for having a listener and compassionate person in their tough times?

That’s how life is as an old film watched again gave me food for thought and a whole track to rethink how and why we have wasted so much time is useless things. At the current time, we are closer to our deaths as the end seems to give me another direction, to work for a collection of stuff that will be the real asset in the afterlife, not the one for the purposeless investment into this mortal world. But, we have to pass the remaining time in this world, as we have to learn, provide a better life for people who are dependent on us, and to strive for a better lifestyle as I am not twenty years younger as like the time of the movie that I watched. 

It is a bit of a sad but interesting thing to see that a young and handsome man as a hero in the film is also old, with obesity and age has taken away his glory youthful charm. That’s how I resemble the blooming flower and then it’s fading and falling away, petal by petal and as a pale worn-out unwanted object. Ahhh! The strange facts of life are not going to change for anyone. 

Here, I would like to quote one of the most beautiful novels that came in the last two decades. Arundhati Roy in her novel “God of Small Things”. When she talked about the character Ammu, who was 31 years old, and she used the phrase “a dieable viable age”. This sentence still haunts me with being closer to all viable to die at any moment. SO, it’s time to prepare for the final destination, and to look and pray for the best things that are promised by God Almighty in Paradise, and to work on it instead of keeping grudges, hatred, jealousy, revenge, pessimism, and other useless emotions in our hearts, minds, and souls anymore.

Post-Pandemic Times Has Change the Global Human Psyche..?

Post-Pandemic life and Human Psyche

It is been almost two years that the world is facing the trauma of a contagious viral disease named Covid-19. The corona has taken many lives, many are still in hospitals, and millions of people suffered and recovered from this pandemic. But the aftermath is continuously going on, and the different variants are still in the global environment. The mutated virus of the corona is still lingering on, and so the world has suffered from losses of lives, the rise of different ailments, infections, economic disasters have taken the world by storms. Many people have lost jobs, running businesses have been shut down, hotels and tourism are badly affected. 

The psychology experts were expecting that such a disastrous pandemic that took the whole world by storms within a few days must have changed the human psyche. As everybody faced the issues whether the dissembling of education, business, loss of loved ones suffering the near-death experiences, the phobias and fear. Everything and everybody became untouchable for others. The new world order was to cover half of the faces with masks, to use sanitizers, to avoid handshaking, hugging, the intimacy of every kinds. So, they thought and hypothesized that people would have a different mindset during and after the pandemic spike would be over. 

But it is sad to see that the world and human beings, in general, have become more self-centered, selfish, and the ways of sympathy and empathy have not become the way of the world. It is really important to note that brutality has risen in the land of oppressions like in India, Jerusalem, Syria, Myanmar, and many other places. The robberies, corruption, rapes, and victimization have been raised in every part of the world. The most civilized societies of America, Canada, Europe, Australia, New Zealand, and others are no exception. The violation of laws and rules is so common nowadays. People have lost the merciful nature in a generic sense that every religion teaches for sure. It is sad to see that ethics, values, and humanity have not risen in standards but in fact, worsened. 

People and authorities are still afraid of the Covid-19 virus and its mutated virus variants. Unfortunately, we haven’t seen goodness and peace prevailing in any society, the murders and all sorts of white and blue-collar crimes have risen. It proves that people are getting senseless, selfish, and immune to the problems of others. They have forgotten the fear of God Almighty, and what will they answer in the life hereafter. It is sad, disturbing, and in fact, heart-wrenching to see and be a part of the world that is cruel to others, and getting, even more, worst to their fellow human beings in an individual and collective capacity. Have mercy if you want to get mercy from others, and in the eternal life after final death….!!

What Life is Teaching Me...!!

Life and Lesson

What life is teaching me

I often wonder...!

Why i am suffering

why I am so silly

What happened at time 

When I knew nothing of Sins...

When I was just so simple

But

Life treated me like 

I was a Criminal 

Tortured me like a hell on earth

I tried hope

I tried Peace of Mind

I wanted to reconciliate with life

But

Nothing came to rescue me

Devil was strong stood with me

Tried every tactics and I was engulfed

I am still trying hard to find peace

To repent over sins

To ask for Forgiveness to God Almighty

I am hopeful He Will Answer with Love

and Remedies of worldly 

and Soul's wounds....

I am hopeful 

life has in fact taught me a lot

I Guess.....!!

Life is Worth a Second Chance?

Life and Love

I am living a Life

One that is worth thousand smiles

I am having all Blessings

Which I cannot recall

I want to die a death

To

Be peaceful and free of madness

I hate to be a difficult person

I love to live a relieved life

but…

It is not easy and I am dying with 

Slow poison of…

Luxuries, dreams and searchable love

I want to get that peace of Soul

Hard to find in this mortal world

I am not into suicide

And to let go all fears

Everything is so strange

and

Yet so difficult

To handle and bear anymore…!!

But

It is worth a second chance

To let me have more experiences

And to

Ask for forgiveness to God Almighty,,,,,

True Love Needs No Parameters of Expression!

 

Love and Human Psyche

It might be my own perception but I like it that way, and I am convinced that true love exists right here in this world. People do fall in love for other persons and it requires no specifications. How we define LOVE is something that needs to be discussed. Some people think that a quantity of time spent together is a parameter of true love while others believe in quality of it!

How to Define Love in Different Perspectives!

So it is hot debate among different races in ancient times, and a subject matter of literature in medieval age, and it is a far Complex Issue in Modern Times. We are not certain of what we really mean by loving someone. Here I am referring to ‘Romantic Love’ but I am not forgetting the importance of Love and Compassion for different blood relations, friends and for nature as well!

What Kind of People Fall in Love for General Humanity and for What Reasons!

People do fall in love at a broader spectrum and they do not bind themselves with only a single expression, and to devote their love for only one human being. Look at the example of “Mother Teresa” who left her life of conveniences, and devoted herself to serve the underprivileged people of India. Did she put all efforts for personal recognition or for wining some award like ‘Nobel Prize’? No! It happened out of a true emotional love for humanity and for seeing people in better conditions of life.

Why People Sacrifice their Comforts for the Love and Freedom of their Nations?

Here I would like to mention about “Muhammad Ali Jinnah” whom the citizens of Pakistan call “Father of the Nation”. He literally devoted his whole life for the sake of independence and freedom of his countrymen, and to let a separate homeland for Muslim of Sub Continent, to live in peace and practice their basic principles of Islam in a best manner. Why he did all this as he was a successful lawyer and a rich man? He enjoyed all luxuries of his time, and what made him stand out of crowd to and decide to devote his life for others!

What is the Motivational Factor of Love of Nation to Fight for a Cause?

It is just too phenomenal with some people that they Love to find PEACE and Comfort for others, and they go beyond imagination to make personal sacrifices for others. Here you can look at the life of “Nelson Mandela” who devoted 27 years in prison, to let black people of South Africa have their right of equality, and a right to live like rest of human beings of the world. Would you say that he was crazy? No he was not but in fact more practical than living in dreams like others of a seen or unseen beloved!!

What is the Reality of Divine Love and Spiritual Elevation!

On a further level of discussion we can look at the lives of those Spiritual Leaders who left all worldly leisure and pleasures for seeking Divine Love. They were not insane but they wanted to escape from the limited mind frame that only wanted to get material gains, and to fall for lust in order to gain Love kind of thing. Their love for Nature and God Almighty was and still is all pure, and it is beyond any expectations and gains for this world.

So I would love to conclude my hypothesis that there are no set standards and parameters of love. So there were and right at this moment there exist people who fall in multifaceted kinds of love. This will keep on happening, and eventually link to the Universe, to find true meaning of Human Existence and to go in search of pure and deep-rooted love for sure!!

Real Earnings of Life – A Query !!

 

Motivation and Desire to Live wit Peace of Mind

When I was a teenager then I listened to a poem by a famous Urdu Poet “Ibn Insha”. He wrote in a very beautiful and in a river flow manner about LIFE and what Human Beings really earn out of this short span of time on Earth. Yes! We are no this planet for a short time, and even don’t know when our end will come. Death is waiting for each soul like a hawk is waiting for its prey to capture!

We are blindfolded with ‘Worldly Passions and Desires’ and forget about this greatest reality that is intact with us from the time of our births. So the poet who had developed cancer to a last stage was asking or in fact begging to God Almighty, to grant him some more days of ‘Life as a Loan’. As he had to perform many duties, and say his love things to those with whom he was always able to remain in a state of unsaid relationship!

Life is really an ILLUSION and only our Instinct of Survival gives us direction to work on plans. But do you really think that everybody in present days or in past has or had spent his or her life in a positive way? A Big NO! I am sure you will agree to my point as we all have read in History Tales that people ruined and crushed whole nations and civilizations for their lust of the world and material things, and to have a desire to remain in history forever!

It is not a matter of discussion here that Hitler, Picoche, Edie Amin, Pharaohs, Alexander the Great or other known names are still alive in our books. Though they were on negative side of life and dealings with others! We are still watching the Films and Television Serials on barbarous acts of Greek or Roman Elites. But have you ever given it a second though as what those people took with themselves. Even if you do not believe in “Afterlife” as I do then still my query stands right here!

Don’t you think that those people turned into dust particles, nitrogen or ashes mixed in soil or water? Whatever remains are the historical monuments or the great buildings but what they got out of all cruelty and barbarism? Nothing to be true! So why not we all start to think about Humanity and its Miseries and Pains as a Collective Issue! 

Who knows what is happening to them in life hereafter, and if you do not believe in it then won’t you agree that it was even more for a momentary pleasure what they did? They are in the history and minds of people as the negative of evil personalities, and we remember them as brutes and whatever not to say. So to love humanity and to try to make peace in this present world of ours must be a simple quest for everyone. 

If we are fair enough then we can start it from ourselves and this positive vibe to save human beings from further tortures, pains, killings and other kinds of evil activities will definitely vanish out of this world. It will be a Heaven like experience right here on earth, even before experiencing it in real. Won’t you agree with my point of view, and I will love to have your democratic port of views for sure. Thank you readers!!

Reality Check on Misery due to Failures in Life!!

Reality Check with Soul Awakening

Life altogether an evolutionary process and you cannot ignore the fact that it has upheavals. If you feel that a smooth career and love life is going ahead then all of sudden you might face a new challenge. It might be a rivalry in office or a desperate effort to destabilize your personal or professional life. Then it is due to some illness or lack of motivation to handle difficult situations. Especially when a person fails in life then he get into depression.

But what is the real use of getting into depression and think of yourself as a Lost SOUL. It is a time to face challenges and failures of LIFE with courage. Without devastating yourself from the right track of Optimism and Positive Energy to regain your Vitals Powers. To reduce stress and anxiety in your life. You are able to build a strong barrier between you and your stresses and anxieties. Yes! You are capable of that and only you can do it. 

If you think that an alien force will come to get you out of situation then you are on wrong foot. It is a battle of survival and the instincts are all within you. Only you need to explore your Inner Energies and in fact Your Soul! When you feel lighter and stronger then you will learn that nothing in LIFE happens without a purpose. You are put into a difficult situation to learn something new and Motivational and that is Divine Law. Whole Nature and Universe revolves around the Principal of Optimism or Positivity that is inside YOU!

With each failure in life we learn to deal with problematic situations, and we see that a strong willpower will get us into the next round of issues with much more Patience and Bravery in fact. Once you have fuel of positivity and strong will then nobody can distract you with negative intentions. Just make a good profile of yours in mind first and then keep on pulling great statements about you. It is highly important to get yourself out a failing situation. 

If you have lost a good career, relationship or an opportunity to be a successful person. The next door is open and if you have a clear faith then you will find peace and prosperity soon. Hardships and trials come in the life of those people whom God Almighty wants to prepare for good things. Remember we are sent into this world for trails and for making a strong commitment to our Spiritual Side. Otherwise there would have been no need of let us think of Heaven and a Hell for wrongdoers. Don’t you agree with my point of view?

Always Value Your Self Esteem and Boost Your Motivation Level!!

Self Esteem Leading to Confidence and Motivation

You know everyone is so important and has a distinct place on this earth. God Almighty has created each individual person with special characteristics and personality, and He Loves his creation undoubtedly. So you are as special as anyone like a political leader, film star, shining music celebrity, star player and anyone worth having attention.

It is just that some people are more out in the world to show their talents to the world. While others remain as the unsung heroes but it does not mean that normal guys like you and I have no meaning of existence on this planet!

Enjoy Your Life and Existence with Motivational Approach

So when our existence is so correlative to nature and special place on Earth, and we are as important in this world like anyone then our Self Esteem is our key point or our USP of Life that we must never compromise. We have to have a focus on our objectives and duties that we have to fulfil but never to lose our personal sanctity, listen to any abuses or to lower our self-respect just because someone wants us to feel like so!

You know that recent research conducted by psychologists proved that people in general feel relaxed, and in fact quite happy if they come to know that others are feeling distracted or feel distressed due to some comment to behaviour by them.

Don’t Compromise on Your Self Esteem

So when a negative vibe is created and a person tries to loosen the tight rope of Motivation and Optimism of anyone then it may be a general phenomenon. The important fact is that whoever that person is, and even he or she matters a lot in your life has no right to let you feel at the lowest level of Self Esteem!

Success in Waiting for You to Recognize Your Positive Personality Traits

It is a right time to think if your relationships are soured up and you are losing that important person “YOU” due to such inhuman acts as I must say! So is the case with your job or any such thing where you continuously feel like in a torture cell, and you feel that you are losing your own worth which is in fact a hindrance in Success.

Wake up your instincts and work on improving your motivation level so that you can find a better job opportunity. To get out of a dragging relationship and find inner peace, and in fact a comfort zone within yourself.

Live a Life of Your Choices and Follow Success Path with Optimism

Live a life of your own choice and cherish your personality attributes. Set your own success goals and live with full Optimism and remain Spiritually Awakened, to fulfil and nourish your Soul. Never try to be a people pleaser, and always focus on having inner strength to fight the outside battle with people who want to refrain you from having Positive Thinking pattern, and Peace of Mind and in fact Your Soul.

Peace of Mind and Soul is Too Important to Compromise On

When you will be working on yourself and remain focused on improving your quality of Life then I am sure you will never give a damn chance to anyone, to ruin your personal freedom and off course your Self Esteem for sure. Good Luck to you and always try to live with a Peace of Mind but having your very own identity all intact!!